Toad's Secret Spot

Happy Fall!

2009-10-09T12:33:00.009-05:00

From one pumpkin to another! A woman was asked by a
coworker, 'What is it like to be a Christian?'

The coworker replied, 'It is like being a pumpkin.'God picks
you from the patch, brings you in, and washes all the dirt off
of you. Then He cuts off the top and scoops out all the
yucky stuff. He removes the seeds of doubt, hate, and
greed. Then He carves you a new smiling face and puts
His light inside of you to shine for all the world to see."

2009-10-07T12:04:00.002-05:00

Psalm 23

The Lord is my Shepherd = That's Relationship!

I shall not want = That's Supply!

He maketh me to lie down in green pastures = That's Rest !

He leadeth me beside the still waters = That's Refreshment!

He restoreth my soul = That's Healing!

He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness = That's Guidance!

For His name sake = That's Purpose!

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death = That's Testing!

I will fear no evil = That's Protection!

For Thou art with me = That's Faithfulness!

Thy rod and Thy staff they comfort me = That's Discipline!

Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies = That's Hope!

Thou annointest my head with oil = That's Consecration!

My cup runneth over = That's Abundance!

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life = That's Blessing !

And I will dwell in the house of the Lord = That's Security!

Forever & ever= That's Eternity

Face it, the Lord is crazy about you.

What is most valuable, is not what we have in our lives, but WHO we have in our lives!

' Do not ask the Lord to Guide your Footsteps if you are not willing to move your Feet'
Peace.

Monster Mash

2009-10-06T10:24:00.001-05:00

My little monsters and some of their friends do the "Monster Mash"....LOL. Click "play" and Enjoy! :

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Kids

2009-09-24T07:07:00.002-05:00

I know lots of people have said it but it is SSOOO true....kids should come with a manuel. You know, an instruction book so "when all else fails, read the instructions!" :) I'm sure it's no big deal compared to what some people have to deal with or even what I have yet to look forward to as my young children grow up into teenagers and then young adults, but still.... My most recent parenting struggles have been with my daughter, a very strong-willed individual. When she doesn't want to do something (ie, eat what's on her plate, stop doing something when asked, ect), she won't! I know that I have to be firm and be consistent but , that's easier said than done, now where is that instruction manual?!?!? Also another thing that is very annoying is something my youngest has started. Everytime he's told "no" he can't have/do something, he esponded "You hate me!" and/or "I hate you!". I've tried explaining the meaning of the word hate and that'snot what he really means, I've also tried ignoring his comment so as not to give him the attention he may be seeking, but he still continues to do it!!! Now where is that manual?!?!?!? HELP!!!, what should I do? When I'm not around people say how good my kids are but when I'm present, they are totally different individuals.
I'm sure you may have already seen this video before but I still laugh when I see it. It's so true, how many of thse things that are parents said and we swore we'd never say that to our kids but now that WE are the parents, guess what we find ourselves saying?!
Click here and enjoy. :)

Summer 2009

2009-09-07T23:35:00.004-05:00

Hi Everyone! Sorry i've been kinda MIA around the blogosphere this past couple of months. As the leaves are starting to turn color and fall off the trees and get ready for school to start, one might kind of argue "did we have a summer?!" Yes, yes we did, and a busy one at that. Here are some highlights of my summer. Just before the end of school in June, a friend of mine hosted her husband's 40th surprise birthday part. It was great fun, especially the demolition derby

Then shortly after the kids were done school I started picking up alot of shifts. For two different weeks the kids stayed with grandparents while Cliff & I were able to work the same shifts together. When they were home, we still worked but opposite shifts so that one would bring the kids to work and the other take them home again. My 0.2 (every other weekend) turned nto 0.8 - 1.0 AKA full-time (with overtime occasionally)

In July, I turned 36 and Cliff, the kids & I ventured on a road trip to Regina for 3 days. While there we visited the Saskatchewan Museum and Lego Exhibit that Wynn had his heart set on. We also went to Moose Jaw as it close and went on a tour of the Tunnels. Very well done and eye-opening to see how terribly we treated Chinese immigrants. Next time we go back, we are going to do the other tour re the gangs of Al Capone.

At the end of June we thought we'd be bringing our new Schizu-Bichon x puppy home but that was changed after she broke her leg. :( All July we kept contact with Cookie and her owner to see how she was doing and eager to bring her home. We finally got the ok the 1st week of August and were able to bring Cookie Oreo Ryden home on August 11, 2009. She has quickly become a part of our family. Granted a few things I thought i was done with, I'm NOT now. For example I was so happy when Liam finally didn't need pull-ups anymore and I no longer found puddles of pee on the floor. Now it's the whole potty training thing all over again. And childproofing/puppyproofing....baby gate is back by the stairs, can't leave anything you don't want chewed on the floor...

Speaking of Liam, he had a MIckey Mouse Clubhouse birthday party and turned 4 last month. My "baby" is now going to be going to "Kindergarten Here We Come" (preschool) this twice a week year. By next year when he starts kindergarten, I'll have all three kids in school full-time.

Also in August, the kids had two two week sessions of swimming lessons. All my kids are like fish and love being in the water. Just watching them is making me think I should take swimming lessons as the two older, especially one, can swim better than me by a long shot. Great thing about taking swimming lessons at the Y is NO MOSQUITOES!!!!! :)

This summer was very cold and wet (see here ). However we have been blessed with a beautiful September. we finally managed to take two family outings that had to cancelled earlier in the summer due to inclement weather. First, we went to Tinkertown, a family amusement park and second, we went fishing at Lockport the weekend before school was to start.

Both Autumn & Wynn have met there new teachers and classes and are enjoying being back at school. Liam will start in 2 days. He has grown up alot in the last year so I'm hoping that he will also enjoy the school experience and it won't be hard for either of us to part for the 2 1/2 hours. As we gear up for the new school year, we are busy getting the kids registered in their progrms. Wynn heard the call of the wild last spring and so has moved up from Beavers to Cubs (scouting). He has his new uniform and starts tomorrow. Autumn has decided to give up Rhythic Gymnastics this year and try Pee Wee Cheerleading. Not to mention their swimming lessons start again on Friday, which has been on break for the last two weeks. And then right after that is Autumn's 6th birthday party ....AHHHHH!, and I thought things were slowing down.....NOT!

Guess I better post this update (which I've been trying to work on for the last week. If I take too much longer I fear it will turn into the project my "Christmas" newsletter did that wasn't mailed until a month late. So much to look forward to and I'm hoping to be able to keep my blog (and you) updated. :)

Meet Cookie Oreo Ryden

2009-08-11T19:06:00.000-05:00

Meeska Mooska Happy Birthday!

2009-08-03T01:47:00.008-05:00

Wow, what a start to a busy day. thankfully it didn't end as it started. You know when you are just dozing kind of on the edge of asleep and awake and having dreams. Well, it was morning and that's what i was doing...I was dreaming about my regrets after the party (of course thinking it was real). I was disappointed with myself that I hadn't taken any pictures during the party;...and I forgot to put the placemats I made the kids into their goody bags;...and we got so sidetracked that we forgot to do the pinata; ...and I didn't put up the two posters I made for the party....Wait a minute...I don't remember putting up the posters....Suddenly I jolt awake and exclaim,"THAT'S WHY!" I roll over and ask my hubby if today is Liam's birthday. After the shock of being woken up, he replys, "Yes". So I jump out of bed and my day begins....

Upon arrival of the guests we gave them Mickey Mouse ears and played them music from Mickey Mouse Clubhouse.

For lunch we served Mickey Mouse hotdogs (of course) and played The Hot Dog Song, Pluto chocolate milk, Goofy Garden veggies (veggies & dip), Daisy's Fruit Garden (fruit platter & dip), Donald's Cheese and Quackers.

And for dessert was a Mickey Mouse Cake.

After we had cake, Liam wanted to open presents.
He got a set of drums,

2 guitars,

and a music studio/keyboard.

He announced he's gonna be a rock star!

as well he got a new diego backpack for school and clothes,

an automatic Nerf gun,

and a Beanie type Spiderman pillow.

The kids had so much fun playing with the instuments we almost didn't get around to the pinata...but we did.

Also they made Mousekespotters out of paper towel rolls that they decorated and then spotted matching shapes I had hung from the ceiling that matched shapes I had. Also they blew bubbles outside and danced to Mickey Mouse music. Everyone had a great time and best of all I didn't forget anything! :)
Wow my "little" boy is now 4 and going to preschool twice a week.
In this picture is what autumn proudly made for Liam. while i was making decorations, she was making the letters for her brother's name and wanted it put on the wall for all to see.

Our Trip To Saskatchewan

2009-07-25T09:52:00.011-05:00

When we started planning a summer getaway, we were thinking of going to Alberta (Calgary, Vulcan, Camrose, Edmonton) and stopping in Regina as that would be about the halfway point. Also Wynn had found in his LEGO magazine pictures of a LEGO exhibit at the Sask. Science Centre. Well as the time got closer some things had changed and Saskatchewan was now the destination. Many people asked WHY SASK?, WHAT'S THERE?....well we were going to make sure we had a good time no matter what other's thought. We were going to have a good family getaway. I must admit after the drive to Regina (and detours to Moose Jaw & Souris) and back to Winnipeg, I'm sure glad we didn't drive to Alberta or any further. The kids would have gone nuts or drove Cliff & I nuts...not sure which would have come first. :) As it was we had fun, here are some pics from our 3 day trip:

A Note From Cookie

2009-07-20T09:45:00.000-05:00

As many of you know we have been in the process of getting a puppy for a couple months now. When they were born, the owner (Val) started emailing me pics regularly. We were excited to pic up our puppy at the end of June but just 4 days prior she had an accident and broke her leg....long story short, we are still waiting. After her vet appt. in July Cookie sent us an update:

Hi Winn, Autumn, & Liam,
I am a big girl now so I'm sending my own emails.
I went to the vet last week and had another Xray to check out my sore leg. She said it's getting lots better but I should wait to come home to your house until it's better yet just so we don't hurt it again when we get playing. I love to run & chase and jump and all those things that puppies and kids like to do.Rick & Val are going away for a holiday so I'm going to stay with Linda ( a nice lady that works for my vet) It's too hot where they are going so I can't go with them. While they are away Linda will take me back to the vet for another Xray so as soon as Rick & Val get home I will get them to help me send another email to let you know what's happening about my leg.
I weigh 3.4 pounds now and I'm the only puppy left here so now my best friend is Toni because her & I are in the house more than even my Mom. We have a big pen outside now to keep us safe and give us room to run and play.I get so tired I go into my kennel in the house and sleep without Val even putting me there. I like to get up about 6:00 in the morning to go out for a pee and then sleep on a blanket that's not in my kennel. I'm still the boss and I'm not scared of anything or anybody. I'm always getting into mischief. Well it's bedtime now. I'm waiting patiently until I get to come home with you guys.
Love Cookie

We'll let you know when we actually get her home!! :)

PHEW!!

2009-07-12T22:26:00.003-05:00

Hello everyone. The kids may be on vacation but I've been working more than I think I have for a long time. I'm at work right now counting down the minutes...only 1hour and 15 min to go before I'm finished my nineth shift of nine in a row. Hubby works for one week and then he is officially (and I am too) on vacation. On the 20th I turn 36 and then on the 21st we are off to Regina for our 3 day trip. I will tell you all about it when we get back.

Speaking about the kids, they were at their Grandparents' for a week and just got back yesterday. Nothing like not having your kids around to make you realize just how much you appreciate them AND THEIR NOISE. Sure while they were gone I'd clean up and it would stay clean but honestly I'll take their constant messes anytime over not having them around. I think my hubby put it best the first day they were away. He said, "sure I like it quiet but this is so quiet it's almost eerie!"

The kids went to visit Cookie, our puppy, while they were out there and say she was running around on her leg. The owner says we may be able to bring her home in a week or so. :D!!!! Not much else to tell you about but i'm sure in the next couple weeks I'll have lots of news. How is your summer going?

Happy Canada Day!

2009-07-01T08:05:00.001-05:00

Last Day Of School

2009-06-30T07:22:00.002-05:00

YAY!!!! It's "officially" the last day of school. I think "technically" school was already done a week ago as the kids have been bringing home all their paraphernalia for the last week+. Yesterday was a talent show and today is a Canada Day celebration where the kids are going to be parading around the neighborhood with Canadian and provincial flags. I'm sure the kids will be looking forward to Mom NOT coming in every morning to get them up & dressed and I personally will be looking forward to not having to make lunches every evening/morning. I know that the summer will go by fast and next fall I'll have three kids in school (2 full-time and Liam 2x/week. We don't have a lot planned for the summer but are planning on taking a 3 day family trip in July and daily swimming lessons in August. And as Mom & Dad work much of the summer the kids are also looking forward to spending some time out in the country with their grandparents and cousins. Have a great summer! Do you have anything special planned for this summer break?

Not Yet :(

2009-06-29T21:56:00.010-05:00

Many of you that have either talked to me recently or have read my blog recently would have known that this past weekend was when we were to pick Cookie up and bring her home. That would have been on Sunday to be exact. Well, we had an unfortunate turn of events. On the Wednesday last week (4 days before we were to pick Cookie up) I received a phone call from her owner. She told me that the day before, her husband had the puppies outside and unfortunately our little Cookie got underfoot and got her leg stepped on resulting in a broken leg. Meaning it would be about 6 -8 weeks before she could leave her Eriksdale home. Val (the owner) explained that if we want our deposit back she'd understand or perhaps we'd want to pick a different puppy... My first thought was this is the one we picked and this is the one we still want. However I knew the kids were excited to get a puppy and bring it home and show everyone their new puppy. We had already gone shopping and bought her bed, toys, leash, dishes, etc. So I thought the kids would like to pick a different puppy that could come home now. Well, after I talked to the kids I found out how wrong I was. After they were done crying they explained how Cookie was already a part of our family and they wanted to wait until SHE was able to come home. Basically they had made a commitment to her "in sickness and in health". We went to visit Cookie (and the other puppies) on Sunday. Wow are they ever getting big. I was surprised how well Cookie was doing. They kept her in a separate kennel from the other pups but when she had her own space she was put on the floor and she walked very well. She has been putting more and more weight on her back leg and is definitely still a puppy at heart and loves to play. She doesn't have a cast or splint and the leg seems to be healing up well. Her next xray appt with the vet is July 15. I guess after that we'll see how soon after we can bring her home. Here are some pics from our last visit.
The remaining 4 puppies sleeping in their area in the middle of the living room.
Cookie in her kennel where she is kept seperate from the other pups until her leg heals.
Autumn visiting Cookie on the chair.
Wynn & Cookie.

Liam & I playing with Cookie on the floor with a tie from my shirt.

First Day of Summer

2009-06-21T06:30:00.002-05:00

Yay! It is officially summer...and it feels like it! :) For the past week the weather has been beautiful. Temps in the mid - high 20's. Yesterday I was even swimming in a friends pool and the water was nice and warm as opposed to what would have been a "polar bear swim" just a few weeks ago. This spring/summer 2009 has been crazy - it feels like we went straight from a winter that wouldn't end to summer! For example on the May long weekend this year it SNOWED!!! I was looking at my wedding photograghs from 9 years ago and I had to reming myself I also got married on the May long weekend but by looking at the pics and green grass you'd think it was June. Also this year, I didn't put my plants in till the first week of June this year as it was so cold in the mornings and overnight. Yet still, what happened....I lost several plants to frost that 1st week of June. Now my plants need regular watering as the are growing like crazy and by the end of the scorching days are wilting from the heat. But don't get me wrong...I am NOT complaining!!! After a 6 month cold streak that wouldn't seem to end, I'll gladly water my plants every evening and sweat in the heat and humidity before you'll hear me complaining!! Happy Summer 2009. Hope it is a great year.

Happy Father's Day

2009-06-21T03:22:00.005-05:00

You can download the above letter/poster by going to this link. I've reprinted it below so you can read it.

GOD LOVES YOU

And He is the father

you've been looking for

all your life.

This is His love letter to you...

My Child,

You may not know me,but I know everything about you. (Psalm 139:1)

I know when you sit down and when you rise up. (Psalm 139:2)

I am familiar with all your ways. (Psalm 139:3)

Even the very hairs on your head are numbered. (Matthew 10:29-31)

For you were made in my image.(Genesis 1:27)

In me you live and move and have your being.(Acts 17:28)

For you are my offspring. (Acts 17:28)

I knew you even before you were conceived. (Jeremiah 1:4-5)

I chose you when I planned creation. (Ephesians 1:11-12)

You were not a mistake,for all your days are written in my book. (Psalm 139:15-16)

I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live.(Acts 17:26)

You are fearfully and wonderfully made. (Psalm 139:14)

I knit you together in your mother's womb. (Psalm 139:13)

And brought you forth on the day you were born. (Psalm 71:6)

I have been misrepresented by those who don't know me.(John 8:41-44)

I am not distant and angry,but am the complete expression of love. (1 John 4:16)

And it is my desire to lavish my love on you. (1 John 3:1)

Simply because you are my child and I am your Father. (1 John 3:1)

I offer you more than your earthly father ever could. (Matthew 7:11)

For I am the perfect father. (Matthew 5:48)

Every good gift that you receive comes from my hand. (James 1:17)

For I am your provider and I meet all your needs. (Matthew 6:31-33)

My plan for your future has always been filled with hope. (Jeremiah 29:11)

Because I love you with an everlasting love. (Jeremiah 31:3)

My thoughts toward you are countless as the sand on the seashore.(Psalms 139:17-18)

And I rejoice over you with singing. (Zephaniah 3:17)

I will never stop doing good to you. (Jeremiah 32:40)

For you are my treasured possession. (Exodus 19:5)

I desire to establish you with all my heart and all my soul. (Jeremiah 32:41)

And I want to show you great and marvelous things. (Jeremiah 33:3)

If you seek me with all your heart, you will find me. (Deuteronomy 4:29)

Delight in me and I will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4)

For it is I who gave you those desires. (Philippians 2:13)

I am able to do more for you than you could possibly imagine. (Ephesians 3:20)

For I am your greatest encourager. (2 Thessalonians 2:16-17)

I am also the Father who comforts you in all your troubles. (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)

When you are brokenhearted, I am close to you. (Psalm 34:18)

As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart. (Isaiah 40:11)

One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes. (Revelation 21:3-4)

And I'll take away all the pain you have suffered on this earth. (Revelation 21:3-4)

I am your Father, and I love you even as I love my son, Jesus. (John 17:23)

For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed. (John 17:26)

He is the exact representation of my being. (Hebrews 1:3)

He came to demonstrate that I am for you, not against you. (Romans 8:31)

And to tell you that I am not counting your sins. (2 Corinthians 5:18-19)

Jesus died so that you and I could be reconciled. (2 Corinthians 5:18-19)

His death was the ultimate expression of my love for you. (1 John 4:10)

I gave up everything I loved that I might gain your love. (Romans 8:31-32)

If you receive the gift of my son Jesus, you receive me. (1 John 2:23)

And nothing will ever separate you from my love again. (Romans 8:38-39)

Come home and I'll throw the biggest party heaven has ever seen. (Luke 15:7)

I have always been Father, and will always be Father. (Ephesians 3:14-15)

My question is…Will you be my child? (John 1:12-13)

I am waiting for you. (Luke 15:11-32)

Love,

Your DadAlmighty God

Puppy Tales

2009-06-17T01:50:00.001-05:00

3 Weeks Old
As I've mentioned before we are in the process of getting a puppy. It will be a Schitzu/Bichon cross. Two weeks ago (May 31) was our first visit out to see the puppies. This weekend (June 14) we will go out again and they will be 5 weeks old. Around about the age their personalities start to emerge. Therefore we will choose which puppy we want to purchase and pay our deposit. More pics to follow of this upcoming visit. Here are some pics of 2 weeks ago. aren't they so cute!?

The father is the dark Shitzu standing up on the fence.

In this picture you see the mother who is Bichon.
This is a grown dog from a previous litter. The owner brought him to visit so we could see what our puppy will grow up to look like.

5 Weeks Old

Each of the kids had their favorite puppy. A) Liam liked "Snowball",
B) Wynn liked "Cookie",
and Autumn liked "Oreo". Now which one will it be ??!!? The white one was very playful. Cookie was also playful but someone else was kinda hoping we wouldn't choose her as that is the puppy they wanted. Oreo is the one we originally thought we wanted from looking at the early pictures. He was actually very cuddly and Autumn wouldn't let him get very far from her grasp.
After much debate and tears shed....Cookie was the one we chose. Two more weeks (June 28) and we'll bring her home. Now to go shopping for puppy necessities and accessories.
Again here is a grown Schitzu/Bichon....cute egh! :)

My Graduates

2009-06-10T20:43:00.005-05:00

Wow, time sure flies when you're having fun!! When my kids were babies I'd just raises my eyebrows and say "yeah right" whenever someone told me kids grow up quick. Boy, were they right! The kids get their graduation pictures taken at school when they finish kindergarten. So now I have two graduation pictures on my wall. Aren't the awesome?! I just have to laugh whenever I think of DH's comments.

Wynn looks so innocent in his pic (don't let him fool ya!) as if he should be wearing a halo.

And Autumn looks so mischeivious.(Yeah, that's about right! :) ) Cliff figures I should draw horns on her picture. LOL

Driveway Old & New

2009-06-10T20:39:00.003-05:00

We recently had our driveway asphalted and it is so much nicer now in so many ways. DH was often saying he'd like to get rid of the crushed rock and have it all paved. His pet peeve was the rocks getting onto the concrete and having to constantly sweep them off. I (as the main snow clearer) hated when the snow would melt in the spring and there would be rocks all over the grass from a season of clearing snow off the driveway. The kids, I'm sure it goes without saying, did not like riding on the rock, falling and nursing their scrapes. Therefore when a young man came to the door and offered to give an estimate on asphalting the driveway ....I was ecstatic. - As opposed to my usually annoyed response to telemarketers and door-to-door sales persons. Below is a picture of my driveway before with the crushed rock and concrete and another picture of the after/now product. What do you think of it?

BEFORE

AFTER

Circus 2009

2009-06-10T20:31:00.005-05:00

Last weekend we went to the circus we have been going to for the last couple of years. Besides being much cooler this year, the show was awesome. Here are some pictures from that night

W Is For Westgrove

2009-05-31T22:42:00.000-05:00

The kids had a book launch at school last week of a book the students of Westgrove elementary (my kids' school) wrote, illustrated and published. It (the project) started seven months ago when they had a guest author showing the new book he'd written about Manitoba titled 'G Is For Golden Boy'. This sparked an idea with the librarian and away they went on starting there own project. I attended the launch and it was very interesting, they showed a powerpoint presentation of the various stages of production. Each class making an alphabet list about their school, each class was assigned certain letters to make a poem about the final choice of word for each letter, also for each letter they were assigned they had to make an oil-like painting. With help from various people in the community including the author & illustrator of the 'G Is For Goldenboy' book, their book was published. The cover drawing was done by my son's class. Here I've scanned the letters of the alphabet for Westgrove School:

Au Paris!

2009-05-28T07:54:00.003-05:00

As promised here is our fun filled day to Paris. My wonderful kids took me to Paris on Mother's Day! :) It was a beautiful day, the weather was just right for a picnic lunch beside the Eiffel Tower. I can't wait till we go back again and see more of this beautiful city. Better bone up on my (our) French first...been a while since I've had to use it.

Busy, Busy, Busy

2009-05-27T21:21:00.002-05:00

Too bad that when I "think about" writing on my blog it doesn't happen (telepathy ?). It's not that I haven't thought about writing on my blog but rather I just haven't had the time to spare to sit in front of my comp and henpeck on my keyboard. Up until just the last few days our weather has been unpredictable with snow and frost overnight and chilly days intermixed with some warmer days. Just the past couple of days I've been wearing shorts and sunscreen to avoid getting a sunburn as all I want to do is stay outside. Today I started planting my garden and Friday I'm looking forward to going to the greenhouses and getting my flowers. Needless to say I'm making my lists and checking them twice. :)

My kids are getting to the age wear I'm one of those moms I'd always hear about driving their kids everywhere. The bad thing is that only two of them are old enough for most activities...just I wait until it is all three!!.....I'm actually enjoying the fact that summer is approaching and so several things are winding up so I'm not out every night. Monday Wynn goes to Cubs, Tuesday Autumn has rhythmic gymnastics and Wynn soccer, Wed eves are now free :), Thurs Wynn has soccer and Friday all three kids have swimming lessons. This past Tuesday, rather than her regular gymnastics class Autumn had assessment as she is old enough to start competitive classes in the fall. She is WAYYY more flexible than I am or ever was...she can do (and enjoys) both side and middle splits.

This weekend we are going out to Cliff's parents place to visit them but also to visit our puppy that we are getting from a breeder out there. It is a Schitzu/ Bichon cross. The pups will be three weeks old this weekend. We will pick out our puppy and get to bring it home with us at the age of 7 weeks.....just before the end of school. It's hard to believe that the school year is almost over. June also holds many other exciting days - circus, church picnic, surprise birthday party for a friend, Autumn's Sparks sleepover... Hopefully I will get around to blogging about them. We have two weeks off in the summer and are trying to decide if when are going to drive out west the. Do you have any exciting plans now the warm weather is here?

Also as a note re exciting news....My Liam boy is wearing underpants and although he still has accidents, his doing VERY good about going pee & poop on the potty and even telling me when he has to go rather than mom trying to remember to take him to try every couple hours. He's quite proud of himself. I must admit I was getting worried as he'll be starting preschool in the fall and he was still in pull-ups.

Sorry not very exciting but I just wanted to let you know why I've been sluffing off here.

9 Years!

2009-05-20T12:12:00.009-05:00

I won't say it's been 9 years of wedded bliss but we've made many memories, shared many moments, pursued many dreams, met challenges, and nutured our love. So I'd say we have much to celebrate and much more to look forward to. Well I finally found out the surprise my hubby has for me. He was going to make me wait until 12:01 to open it but, he gave it to me last night after the kids had gone to bed. It's beautiful (It may not look like it but it's real diamonds and rose gold):) :

And my neighbor who is a florist also gave us a card and some flowers. As soon as I saw them, I asked, "How did you know?!" Apparently she didn't know that these are my favorite color roses and are similar to the peach roses I had at my wedding. :)

Just as a late entry I've wanted to show you what the kids gave me for Mother's Day. Inside the card was a magnet to reflect mom's (my) mood. It's so cute.

There is a "frame"magnet and then the larger one with the various moods/faces.Depending on how you feel, you frame the appropriate face. The morning I took this pic I was apparently sleepy. I think tonight considering it is our anniversary and circumstances aren't favorable for us to go out...Mom feels like ordering in. :)

Oh, also on Mother's Day the kids took me to Paris. When we get the pics back I'll post a picture for you. ;)

World Hypertension Day: May 17, 2009

2009-05-17T22:03:00.001-05:00

I started this post 2 1/2 months ago when my husbund had a close call with his blood pressure. It was then that I found out about "Hypertension Day" and wanted to make sure other people were aware. Luckily it was just a "wake-up call" rather than a stroke. My husband has always known his blood pressure is borderline high and cardiac problems run in his family. He had pretty much accepted his daily migraines as a part of his daily schedule. But once he went to the dr with a blood pressure of 195/105 all that changed. After several visits to the dr, he was started on 3 cardiac medications, his blood pressure is now around 115/80 and I don't remember his last migraine headache. In addition to cutting down on his salt (sodium) intake, he's also drinking alot more water vs soda and atempting to be more active. Needless to say he's lost about 10 pounds and feeling great. Great as far as his blood pressure goes....

2009 Theme: Salt and High Blood Pressure. Two Silent Killers - Get Informed. Live Long

World Hypertension Day
World Hypertension Day has been established to highlight the preventable stroke, heart and kidney diseases caused by high blood pressure and to communicate to the public information on prevention, detection and treatment.
Each year, May 17th is designated World Hypertension Day. High Blood Pressure Is A Global Epidemic. Over 1.5 billion people worldwide suffer from high blood pressure (or hypertension). Hypertension is the biggest risk factor for heart disease, stroke and kidney disease.
High blood pressure is the biggest single risk factor for death worldwide, causing strokes, heart attacks and kidney disease.
Salt Is A Major Factor In Raising Blood Pressure. High salt (sodium) consumption is the cause of hypertension in about 3 in 10 adults. Hypertension is the major risk factor in cardiovascular diseases, accounting for 64% of strokes and 49% of coronary heart disease. Reducing sodium
reduces blood pressure. Globally, 7 million die every year because of high blood pressure. Many of these deaths could be prevented by eating less sodium. Sodium is a part of table salt but up to
80% of the sodium we consume comes from processed or packaged food and food eaten at restaurants.

For More Information
http://www.worldhypertensionleague.org/

http://www.hypertension.ca/

http://www.worldkidneyday.org/

http://www.worldactiononsalt.com/

http://www.ish-world.com/

http://www.sodium101.ca/

STOP – Cut Down On
Foods High In Sodium
Anchovies, bacon, cheese, chips
(if sodium added), coated chicken,
powdered sauces, noodle snacks, olives,
pickles, prawns, salami, salted nuts,
salted fish, sausages, smoked meat
and fish, soy sauce, stock cubes, table
sauces, canned meats.

Sodium More Than 400 Mg per Serving

YIELD – Eat Fewer Servings
of Processed Foods.
Baked beans, cookies, breakfast cereals,
bread products, burgers, cakes, pastries,
cooking/table sauces, chips, stuffed/
canned pasta, meat pies, pasta sauces,
pizza, ready meals, soup, sandwiches

Sodium 200 - 400 Mg per Serving

GO – Eat More Foods
Lower In Sodium
Some breakfast cereals, couscous,
eggs, fresh fish, meat and poultry, fresh
cheese, fruits and vegetables (dried,
fresh, frozen) homemade bread/sauces/
soup, mozzarella and ricotta cheese,
pasta, rice, unsalted nuts, plain cottage
cheese, plain popcorn, yogurt, peas,
beans, lentils, seeds.

Sodium Less Than 200 Mg per Serving

Other Helpful Actions:
• Don’t put the salt shaker on the table.
• Try using fresh herbs and dried spices instead of salt.
• Try making your own sauces with less or no salt.

What actions can countries take to reduce salt intake?
It Is Vital That All Countries Reduce
Their Salt Intake.
• The average daily salt intake in worlwide is
approximately 9-12 grams per person.
• The World Health organization
recommends not more than
1 tea spoon of salt (5-6 grams
per day. New evidence
recommends daily intake of
only half a tea spoon of salt
(2-3 grams) per day and even
less for children.
• National salt reduction is the least costly way to
prevent cardiovascular disease.
If salt intake is reduced by half,
it would save approximately
2.5 million deaths a year from strokes
and heart attacks worldwide.
Salt Reduction Strategies Around the World
Developed Countries:
Most salt in the diet comes from processed, packaged,
restaurant, or fast foods.
• Engage with the food industry to reduce salt in
the manufacturing process
• Encourage governments to set voluntary salt
reduction targets
• Develop food labeling with salt
• Education Educate the public
about the danger of salt
Other Countries:
Most of the salt is added during
cooking or comes from sauces.
• Assess major sources of
salt in the diet
• Educate health authorities
and Government
• Educate the public about
the dangers of salt

What action can the average person take to reduce salt intake?
Cut The Salt And Lower Your Risk!
People who eat too much salt are more
likely to have high blood pressure,
resulting in heart attacks, stroke and
kidney diseases. But, the salt shaker is
not the biggest culprit! About 80% of
the sodium you eat is from processed,
packaged, restaurant and fast foods.
Check Food Labels
Before You Buy
To reduce your sodium intake, check
food labels for sodium content.
Choose foods that are low in sodium,
sodium-reduced. Try to avoid food with
20% or more of sodium per serving.
1 gram of salt contains
400 milligrams (mg) of sodium or
1 gram of sodium = 2.5 grams of Salt.
The current average daily sodium intake
is well over the recommended level
of 1 teaspoon or of 2,300 mg.
Try to use only half a tea spoon
of salt a day.
Control Your Blood Pressure:
• Measure your blood pressure regularly
at home.
• If your blood pressure is high see a health
care provider to get an assessment.
• If you are on treatment make sure to take
your medications regularly.

Unfortunately, now my husband is off work again but this time due to a back injury. He's seeing a physiotherapist regularly and returns back to work on light duties in a week. Poor guy is calling himself "Brad Pittiful". Yes there is a story behind that....both my husband and I work as RN's at the same place so one day when I picked up a shift on is unit that he is off sick for, one of the HCA's said "oh look, it's Mrs. Smith....in place of Mr. Smith who isn't here." My first thought was, "does that make me Angelina Jolie?!". I went home and called my husband "Brad Pitt"....thus his response :)

Florence Nightengale's Birthday: May 12

2009-05-12T00:00:00.002-05:00

Florence Nightingale lived a long and remarkable life. Although she is known as the founder of modern nursing and one of the most famous women in history, few people know that she spent the last half of her life confined to her home and often bedridden, suffering from an illness similar to what we now call ME/CFS (Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome).

She was born on May 12, 1820 to wealthy British parents travelling in Italy. Named for the city in which she was born, young Florence never quite fit the mold of a Victorian lady. She was well educated in literature, music, drawing and the domestic arts. A women of her social standing was expected to marry and devote her life to her family, entertaining, and cultural pursuits.

However, she felt an early calling to serve, and refused to marry. When she attempted to go to work as a nurse, her horrified family repeatedly opposed her. In those days, hospitals were often dirty and dark and nurses were untrained, sometimes drunken women. Finally, at age 33 she was able to obtain some minimal training and begin her career.

In 1854, the British press began reporting that soldiers wounded in the Crimean War were being poorly cared for in deplorable conditions. Nightingale recruited and equipped a group of nurses and went off to Turkey to help. Her arrival was not celebrated by the surgeons there, who resented the interference of a woman. Undaunted, she worked tirelessly to improve conditions in the hospital. Her changes revolutionized British military medical care, increasing standards for sanitation and nutrition and dramatically lowering mortality rates. While visiting the front lines, she became ill and never really recovered.

Although an invalid for the rest of her life, Nightingale continued to have an influence on standards of nursing care and training. In 1859 she helped to establish the first Visiting Nurse Association and in 1860, she established a school that became a model for modern nurses training. She was considered an expert on the scientific care of the sick and was asked by the United States for her advice on caring for the wounded soldiers of the Civil War. Through correspondence and reports, she continued her influence throughout her last years. She was the first women to receive the British Order of Merit. In 1907 the International Conference of Red Cross Societies listed her as a pioneer of the Red Cross Movement. She died in 1910 at the age of ninety.
Florence Nightingale was known by the British soldiers in the Crimea as the “lady with the lamp” because of the late hours that she worked tending to the sick and wounded. Today, she is remembered as a symbol of selfless caring and tireless service.

Nurses week May 11 - 17

2009-05-11T00:00:00.001-05:00

Canada's National Nursing Week will be May 11-17, 2009. Use the week as opportunity to show appreciation for the vital role that nurses play in the health care system and in the life of every Canadian.
Nurses world-wide are recognized each year in May during Nurses Week. The Canadian Nurses Association (CNA) has chosen as this year's national theme, Nursing: You can't live without it!
"National Nursing Week provides an opportunity to celebrate all nursing professions and recognize the diversity and complexity of the roles [nurses play]. It also gives the public an opportunity to understand and appreciate the contributions nurses make to people's health and well-being," notes Alberta RN magazine (April 2009, V65 N4, p. 20) Read more: "National Nursing Week 2009 in Canada: Nursing - You Can’t Live Without It! is Canadian Theme" - http://healthfieldmedicare.suite101.com/article.cfm/national_nursing_week_2009#ixzz0DlmIDtI8&A

Both my husband and I are nurses and between the two of us we have worked in a variety of nursing fields including Palliative Care, Geriatric Long-Term Care, Stroke Rehab, Acute Brain Injury Rehab, Special Needs, Alzheimer's Care, Community Health Nurse visiting new moms & babies. During these years of experience I must say that I admire my fellow nurses/mentors, especially those with years of experience. Watching them now and even looking back on my years as a Health Care Aide on the medical/surgical units I have to agree with a quote I recently read by a nursing historian, Joan Lynaugh, when she said, "Most people know they can't get into a hospital without a doctor. What they don't know is that they won't get out of one - atleadt not alive - without a nurse."

This week tell your local nurses just how much you appreciate them! Especially with the staff shortages these days, nursing can be a very stressful occupation (as I'm sure many are)...bring a smile to a nurse's face today.

Happy Mother's Day!

2009-05-10T00:21:00.004-05:00

What's With This Weather?!?

2009-05-09T13:07:00.006-05:00

If I didn't see it with my own eyes, I wouldn't believe it. Actually, I would...how pathetic is that...I do live in Manitoba after all! Just three days ago, the daytime high was +22*C, we were wearing shorts, and biking to school. Today, just three days later, IT'S SNOWING! and I had to bring my potted flowers inside. Thankfully it's not as much as Liam imagined when I said "It's snowing". He replied with glee, "I'm going to go make snow angels!" Hopefully you have to wait until next winter for that my boy, I want to see summer first!

This is what I saw when I looked out my window. Actually I'd already been up for about an hour and there isn't as much snow in these pics as I first saw when I woke up. This is a good thing I guess, means the temperature is warming up and melting the snow. :)

And to think that I scoffed at having to wait until the May long weekend to go to the greenhouse and start buying and planting flowers. The weather was so nice for a couple days I guess I had "spring fever". This is my reality check.

Here are our vehicles covered in snow. In the winter we keep the van in the garage but now the garage is full of bikes, spring toys and gardening stuff.....oops!
I don't think I posted a picture of our new car. The Echo beside the van, we purchased it in January of this year. So nice, I can't imagine how we did with only one vehicle or even how I did without a driver license for so long.
I hope you all are having a good spring!

Tales From The Laundry Room

2009-05-08T06:55:00.012-05:00

It all started last week when my neighbors dryer apparently bought the biscuit and she asked if she'd be able to bring her wet washed clothes over and use my dryer.....SURE! I replied. Little did I know that on Friday while I was doing laundry, when I went down stairs to put my clothes in the dryer and start another load as this one should have be done for some time now. I lifted the lid on the washer to find a tub full of water and clothes. Oh no, did the button get pushed off....nope, is the dial stuck...nope, breaker blown....nope, I couldn't seem to find a simple solution. Seeing as how this was Friday evening and we wouldn't be able to get a repairman to come and look at it till after the weekend, we emptied the washer with a wet-dry vac. Can you imagine how that much standing water would stink after sitting for 3 days. Good thing my dryer still worked and I could dry these wet clothes sitting here. As I looked down at the days of laundry unable to wash any of it, two words came to mind - JOYCE, HELP! (that would be my neighbor). You can imagine with three young children and two nurses that wear a different uniform everyday and then change into street clothes after work that I need to do laundry about every other day. Well good thing we are good neighbors, for the next 5 days until out new appliances were delivered I used Joyce's washer and she'd use my dryer. :) We had figured that it was probably the pump that was gone on our washer and hopefully it could get fixed relatively inexpensively. Think again we were told, by the time we paid for someone to come out, look at it, and fix it, we might as well by a new one. So we did, we upgraded our top loading washer AND dryer (which was starting to make squeaky noises and we figured it's days were numbered) to a front loading pair...pretty! :)
washer

dryer

My laundry room is actually also the storage room/ utility room so I had to clean out the room of the boxes, totes and bookshelves with books so the delivery men could actually get the old ones out and the new ones in. As I look as the room now with everything out, it looks so roomy and so much more like a laundry room. As I was moving all this stuff out, there was alot of stuff I thought "why do we have/keep/or need this?" and definitely don't plan on moving it back downstairs. Having to move stuff is a good way of making yourself go through stuff and clean dust bunnies you never seem to get to. Here are a coupe pictures of the room and a close-up of the "laundry area" as it looks now. Just looking at it gives me visions of how to "finish" and decorate it. Also it reminds me of a conversation with a friend and gives me inspiration to put up some shelves, lay some mats/flooring and splash a bit of paint.

Yah-weh!

2009-05-06T23:24:00.001-05:00

Here is a cartoon that was in my kids Sunday School bulletin re obedience ...LOL.....

Happy Cinco De Mayo!!

2009-05-05T18:03:00.002-05:00

Did you know?...I didn't!!

2009-05-05T18:00:00.001-05:00

Apparently yesterday, May 4th, was International Star Wars day. With a husband and a son who know waaaayyy more about Star Wars than I ever will, I'm thinking I should have known this! Anyway......May the fourth be with you!! LOL :D

Writer's Block

2009-04-26T02:29:00.005-05:00

~10 FAVORITES~
1) Favorite Colors:it depends... to decorate with: peach, teal; to wear: browns, greens, earth tones

2) Favorite Food: just one?? ice-cream, seafood, chinese food

3) Favorite Musical Group: I don't listen to much music that isn't kids

4) Favorite Song right now: ? I can't pick just one

5) Favorite Movie: No Reservations, Top Gun, The Holiday, Fireproof

6) Favorite Sport: Wow, these questions are really making me think and realize how little me time I have. I haven't played any sports for a long time but I have always like volleyball, badminton, soccer. I really, really enjoy WATCHING figure skating but cannot do that myself.

7) Favorite Season: Fall with Spring a close second!

8) Favorite Day Of the Week: Saturday

9) Favorite Ice Cream Flavor: chocolate chip cookie dough

10) Favorite Time of Day: bedtime after a busy day

~9 CURRENTS~
1) Current Mood: Tired; I'm working my 2nd night shift and it is 2:12 in the morning

2) Current Taste: Raspberry flavored water

3) Current Clothes: Nursing Scrubs - solid cranberry colored pants and printed top with cats, dogs, hearts, and stethoscopes

4) Current Desktop: a pic of my 3 kids and their 2 cousins wearing there new PJ's from Grandma & Grandpa at Christmas

5) Current Music: none

6)Current Time: 2:14 am

7) Current Surroundings: I'm sitting at the nursing station with a darkened wing to either side

8) Current Thoughts: I really should be doing something useful. I will have to start doing morning rounds soon.

9) Current Status: Married ha ha

~8 FIRSTS~
1) First Best Friend: A boy down the street named Desmond. When I was 4. We would regularly disappear together. I got a note from him asking me to marry him.

2) First Kiss: I can't really remember ... isn't that a shame?

3) First Screen Name: can't remember - Toad, I think

4) First Pet: a dog, Australian Terrier, named Jody

5) First Piercing: my ears

6) First Crush: Ummm.....? There were lots of "crushes" but none that turned into relationships

7) First Music: I can't remember, I assume this refers to professional but if not then I guess it would probably be lullabys from my mother and grandmother.

8) First Love: Cliff

~7 LASTS~
1) Last Cigarette: Never smoked and never will.

2) Last Drink: Wine hubby brought home on Valentine's day

3) Last Car Ride: I drove myself here to work yesterday evening

4) Last Kiss: Last night I kissed hubby as he came to see me at the end of his shift and the start of mine just before he left to go home to sleep in our comfy bed. I hope he's catching some Z's for me too.

5) Last Movie Seen: In the theater-Monsters Vs Aliens; On DVD-Bolt

6) Last Phone Call: My sister in law (who lives 2 hours out of the city) saying they were in Winnipeg and wondered if we'd meet them for supper and if they could sleep over at our house.

7) Last CD Played: Taylor Swift (requested by my niece and daughter) Last one I played for me was "Short Term Memories" by Chris Rice

~6 HAVE YOU EVERS~
1) Have You Ever Dated One Of Your Best Guy/Girl Friends: Yeah...and I married him. :)

2) Have You Ever Broken the Law: Not intentionally

3) Have You Ever Been Arrested: No, knock on wood. I guess there's always a first time but I sure hope I never am.

4) Have You Ever Skinny Dipped: Ya, every chance I get. Oh, ya!

5) Have You Ever Been on TV: NO!

6) Have You Ever Kissed Someone You Didn't Know: I don't think I have. I may need to put that on my list of things to do before I die. (hee-hee)

~5 THINGS~
1) 1 Thing You're Wearing: black underwear

2) 1 Thing You've Done Today: blog - now I'm pathetic

3) 1 Thing You're Listening To Right Now: the hum of my computer and the clacking of the keys on the keyboard as I henpeck this.

4) 1 Thing You Can't Live Without: my hubby & kids

5) 1 Thing You Do When You're Bored: Don't get bored too often, but I find it's mostly when I don't have something to keep my hands busy that that's when I bite my fingernails.

~4 PLACES YOU'VE BEEN TODAY or Yesterday as today hasn't officially stated for most people.
1. Boston Pizza
2. Dairy Queen (after supper at BP)
3. My yard
4. Work

~3 PEOPLE YOU CAN TELL ANYTHING TO~
1. Betty-Jo
2. My kids
3. Cliff, I like to think I can

~2 CHOICES~
1. Black or White: Black (for clothes) White (for decorating)
2. Hot or Cold: Hot

~1 THING YOU WANT TO DO~
1. Make it to heaven.

The Simple Woman's Daybook (April 20th edition)

2009-04-21T22:08:00.004-05:00

For Today...

Outside my window...the snow is all gone and has left behind lots of sand all over the streets, yards and sidewalks. Time to get those street sweepers going. Haven't seen one yet but hope to soon.

I am thinking...I need to go to the bank and cash our income tax returns and pay off some bills.

I am thankful for...the flood waters going down and no more adjustments to the flood forecast

From the kitchen...Shrimp Taco Dip that I'm making for home group tomorrow as well as some Sesame Street and Winnie the Pooh character shaped Jello jigglers for the kids.

I am wearing... black jeans, a pink hooded top with faux white camisole attached.

I am reading...The Bible, I've never read the entire book but I think I've finally found a plan for reading the Bible in 1 year that works for me.

I am hoping...every time I get the mail out of my mailbox there will be a letter or card (ie "real mail") addressed to me.

I am creating...a busy and exciting calendar for the next couple of months.

I am praying...for God's wisdom and he will help me to parent my children.

Around the house...I started putting away winter boots, scarves, hats, and mitts a week ago, now to finish washing and putting away the rest of the winter clothes and getting out the spring shoes & clothing.

One of my favorite things...watching the new growth emerge from the ground that has been long since hibernating for the past season.

A few plans for the rest of the week... life-group, YWCA swim lessons, taking my daughter to watch the Western Rhythmic Gymnastic Meet at the university, and working night shifts this weekend.

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you...

To read more Simple Woman Daybook Entries like this one go here.

The Jelly Bean Prayer

2009-04-13T22:24:00.007-05:00

Along with Easter chocolate treats, my mother also gave the kids something else in their bag. Remember the jelly bean post I posted on Easter well this was a little different and I really liked the book that came with the card too. Have you seen this version:

Here is the book:

Easter Egg Hunt

2009-04-13T19:41:00.005-05:00

This Easter my mom was babysitting the kids as both my husband and I had to work. Since there was still alot of snow outside and the grass you could see was very soggy, my mom decided we just wouldn't have an Easter egg hunt this year. "The kids won't mind will they?!"....my first thought was, "Like Yeah...what a rip!" so I decided to make up an Easter egg scavenger hunt of sorts they could do inside. I then read an idea where you could also incorporate scripture verses and the Easter story into it, I thought this was awesome and this is what I came up with. Once hubby & I got off work and to my Mom's house we hid the eggs with the clues & scriptures and the kids loved it. Before we started I explained that in each egg would be a scripture on colored paper and we'd read that first before the next clue and on and on. I used the Message Bible to write the scripture verses:

Egg#1 (I gave this egg to the kids to start things off)
-Clue: Happy Easter. This is clue #1, sending you on your way
At this treasure hunts end you will find
An Easter treat made with you in mind
Under the table where you eat your food
You will find clue number two.

Egg#2 (under the kitchen table)
-Scripture: John 1:1-3 The Word was first, the Word present to God, God present to the Word. The Word was God, in readiness for God from day one. Everything was created through him; nothing-not one thing!-came into being without him.
-Clue: Well done you found the second clue
Is the next one far?
Perhaps you might try looking on the one you call Grandma

Egg#3 (in Grandma's pocket)
-Scripture: John 3:16 This is how much God loved the world: He gave His only son, his one and only son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life.
-Clue: To check her mail, Grandma must go to her front door
Hiding in her mailbox is clue number four.

Egg#4 (in the mailbox)
-Scripture: Matthew 11:28-30 Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you'll recover your life. I'll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me-watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won't lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you'll learn to live freely.
-Clue: You will get your treat yet
Is there one by the tv set?
This guy is green and groovy
Your clue is by Grandma's favorite Christmas movie

Egg#5 (beside The Grinch movie)
-Scripture: John 8:12 Jesus once again addressed them, "I am the world's light. No one who follows me stumbles around in the darkness. I provide plenty of light to live in."
-Clue: Look around the livingroom and find a pooh Bear
Do yu think you might find another clue there?

Egg#6 (on Pooh Bear)
-Scripture: Mark 8:35-36 You're not in the driver's seat; I am. Don't run from suffering; embrace it. Follow me and I'll show you how. Self-help is no help at all. Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to saving yourself, your true self. What good would it do to get everything you want and lose you, the real you? What could you ever trade your soul for?
-Clue: You scraped you knee and said "boo-hoo"
Where the bandaids are, you'll find clue #7 too.

Egg#7 (inside the medicine cabinet)
-Scripture: Mathew16:16 And Simon Peter said, "You're the Christ, the Messiah, the Son of the living God."
-Clue: You are getting close to finding your treat
Look for a clue by Grandpa's seat

Egg#8 (in Grandpa's chair)
-Scripture: John 14:6 Jesus said, "I an the Road, also the Truth, also the Life. No one gets to the Father apart from me."
-Clue: Scrape the scraps off all the plates
When this machine works, it cleans them just great.

Egg#9 (in the dishwasher)
-Scripture: Luke 23:46 Jesus called loudly, "Father, I place my life in your hands; Then he breathed his last breath.
-Clue: Go where sleepy dogs, teddys, and dolls lay their heads at night
And find clue number ten you just might.

Egg#10 (under doll's pillow in doll crib)
*EGG EMPTY* - Give scripture and clue to kids and after reading the scripture explain that the egg was empty just like Jesus' tomb.
-Scripture: Mark 16:4-6 Then they looked up, saw that it had been rolled back- it was a huge stone- and walked right in. They saw a young man sitting on the side, all dressed in white. They were completely taken back, astonished. He said, "Don't be afraid. I know you were looking for Jesus the Nazerene, the one they nailed on the cross. He's been raised up; he's here no longer. You can see for yourselves that the place is empty.
-Clue: It's almost suppertime and the table needs to bet set
In a white kitchen drawer
You'll find knives, forks and spoons
Look inside and you may find something more.

Egg#11 (in cutlery drawer)
-Scripture: Luke 24: 36-40 While they were saying all this, Jesus appeared to them and said, "Peace be with you." They thought they were seeing a ghost and were scared half to death. He continued with them. "Don't be upset, and don't let all these doubting questions take over. Look at my hands; look at my feet- it's really me. Touch me. Look me over from head to toe. A ghost doesn't have muscle and bone like this." And as he said this, he showed them his hands and feet.
-Clue: The Easter gifts are near now
On this I'd like to bet
The next place that they're hiding in
You get clean and they might get wet.

3 Easter gift bags one with each kid's name on it (in the bathtub)
In the bags I got them a 1LB chocolate bunny, an umbrella (Cars-Liam;, Hannah Montana-Autumn; Bakugan-Wynn) and a streamer/ribbon( like what you use in gymnastics) on a stick. The kids had a great time and it was even raining so when we went home they got to try out their new umbrellas.

Happy Easter

2009-04-12T13:19:00.005-05:00

Even Jelly Beans can be used to share the good news message of Easter -
I got this in my email an want to share it with you:

Jelly Bean Prayer

Red is for the blood He gave,

Green is for the grass He made,

Yellow is for the sun so bright,

Orange is for the edge of night.

Black is for the sins that were made,

White is for the grace He gave.

Purple is for the hour of sorrow,

Pink is for the new tomorrow.

A bag full of jelly beans,

Colorful and sweet,

Is a Prayer...is a Promise... Is an Easter treat!

HAPPY EASTER!!

Trip to the Museum

2009-04-07T14:06:00.008-05:00

One of Wynn's friend's wasn't able to make it to his party so we invited him over on Spring Break. On Wynn's birthday proper we all went to the Museum. Carter is a friend that Wynn met in kindergarten.

I have no idea what this thing is but assume it is some part if the projector for the images onto the planetarium walls.

The show we went to see was To Worlds Beyond and was narrated by Patrick Stewart. Needless to say, DH was syked to see it.

The kids in the planetarium before the show started.

Dinosaur Dynasty an exhibit from China

The kids being paleontologist looking for dinosaur fossils in the sand.

the replica of a dinosaur egg (top) and a real artifact (bottom)

Standing in line waiting to board the Ship the Nonsuch

Inside the cabin

Snake pit like the one in Narcisse, MB....EWWW!

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Inside the bat cave

From One Extreme ToThe Other

2009-04-07T13:21:00.003-05:00

YAY!! My blogger is working, finally. I wanted to blog about the last couple of days but it wasn't possible due to technical difficulties. !@#$%^&*(?!@ Anyway, the things I wanted to blog about are......
Last week was Spring Break here. My in-laws came into the city Friday for something else. We would all be going back out to the country (Eriksdale) for the weekend to celebrate my niece's birthday as soon as Cliff was done his last evening shift Friday night. Which meant we'd probably go out early Saturday morning so the kids would be there in time for 12:30 when the "kid's party" was to start. Rather, my in-laws took our van and all three kids back with them on Friday. They left Friday am and my husband left for work around 2:30pm so from then on till he arrived home after midnight, I had the whole quiet house to myself. S-I-L-E-N-C-E!!!!! I was able to sit uninterrupted at my computer and watch old episodes of ER, surf the 'net, facebook, and I WOULD HAVE blogged had my computer let me (GRRR!!!). I ate supper when I wanted, didn't have to watch the clock so I put little ones to bed on time. AND, I almost forgot, Hubby asked me to go get his mother something for her birthday so I was able to go shopping myself and not have to do up and undo three other seat belts. And I was able to go into a clothing store and walk around "just looking" till I found the right one and bought Grandma an outfit for her birthday. Then when Hubby did come home at around 12:30am, we didn't have to rush off to bed but rather made a snack and finally went to bed around 2:00am. Needless to say we slept in without being woken up, jumped on and have to watch/listen to Treehouse tv. Best of all, since we weren't in a hurry to get the kids to their party (the "family party" was Sunday at 12:30) we didn't have to hurry off and get a quick bite to eat. Rather after we rose from our leisurely sleepin we went out for brunch together. Basically we went out for a date just the two of us. I think it was almost supper time by the time we finally arrived in Eriksdale. As nice it it was, a day without the kids , it was also nice to see them again........or so I thought. SILLY ME! The rest of the weekend wasn't bad as we were visiting family and there were lots of other kids around, but once Monday morning came and back to the ole drawing board....AAHHH!!!!! I'm surprised I still have hair on my head and didn't pull it all out! :) Cliff was gone for work at 6:30am and it started when I had to get the kids up for school and never stopped till Hubby came home from work. He was greeted by my kicking something the kids had left out across the hall. OOPS, Sorry! I'm not sure why but as much as my kids Love me, I know they don't respect me or atleast they don't act like it. I was to the point of tears several times. I set limits, consequences, am firm but they never pay attention to me until Daddy is brought in. As I've been told, I shouldn't have to raise my voice rather I should just have to give them "the look" and they listen. What am I doing wrong? I love my kids but honestly sometimes they drive me CRAZY!!

Pictures From Wynn's Party

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My boy is 8!

- Wynn's birthday cake that was actually cupcakes.

- make a wish Wynn!

- Wynn checking out his poster with ALL the Star Wars characters.

- The Gang after cake

- The Gang ready to watch the movie Monsters Vs. Aliens.

Rachael Needs...according to Google

2009-04-02T19:26:00.002-05:00

Here is something you can do for fun some time and see what comes up. Enter in a Google search for "your name needs" and write down the first ten (or more) things that come up. So for example I searched "Rachael needs" and according to Google, Rachael needs...-

to learn to accept things even if she does not like them. - HMMM...ok....
a late night dessert snack. -Sounds yummy! Ice-cream or perhaps cheesecake?!
something to do. -I have lots to do but something fun....ok... like what?
a fantastic bag to really finish her outfit. - yes, I'm unlike most woman, I only have ONE purse I use all the time.
to start acting and dressing her age. - are you saying I act immature?
a vacation. - DEFINITELY...I'd like to be able to afford a trip somewhere with my family.
to get a life and there is nothing funny about her, she is just simply annoying and too loud. - :( BOOHOOHOO, I didn't realize I offended anyone quite that much.
money, right now. - you can say that again.
your numbers! :) - ;)
a second, third, fourth, and fifth opinion. - are you saying I can't make up my mind...you're quite right.
some buddies. - I'm so lonely at times. This beautiful country of ours is just so wide.
to come to the end of herself and surrender control to Him. - I'm trying every day.
to do something with her life. - I'm also trying to do that too.
to work on her perimeter shooting. - ???
a ride. - not so much now since I got my little car in January, I can't imagine how we ever functioned with just one vehicle.
love :D - always or I'll wilt.
prayers. - AMEN!

For fun I also searched "Rachael is"-

that you? - maybe :)
having a baby. - not unless it's by immaculate conception.
just barely showing a laugh line or two. - gee thanks.
an amazing cook. - now I REALLY know you must be talking about Rachael Ray!
the prettier version of Rachel - YUP! :D
a very nice name and I have nothing against it. - I love my name.
not only a teacher but also a leader. - who me???...I don't think so!
so underrated. - I don't know about that.
the first admit that she isn't an expert. - ain't that the truth!
the picture of health. - maybe at one time when my metabolism was a bit faster.
on Facebook. - yes, I am.
under 5'3" - more like under 5' !
perfect if you are just plain lazy. - :)
my go-to-girl. - ?
an Honors Chemistry Major at the University of P.E.I. - I liked chemistry but a Major, I don't even have a Major in my Nursing. However I'd love to go to P.E.I.
back!!! - did you miss me?!

More Parties

2009-03-29T01:02:00.006-05:00

In nine days, March 31 - April 8, my family has 5 birthdays to celebrate. We had my son's birthday party yesterday. Normally I go all out and do a theme party but this year I just didn't have any ideas early enough to get organized PLUS I'm working night shifts this weekend so I'm in no condition to be hosting a bunch of people at my house. So this year we did something different and had a popcorn party at the movie theater.

The kids watched the movie Monsters vs Aliens. Click the movie title to check out the trailer if you haven't seen it yet. I got off work at 7:45 am. We (3 adults and 8 kids) met at the movie theater for 12:40pm. Had birthday cake and presents in a party room for the first hour then watched the movie in a reserved seating area with popcorn and drinks provided. After, my family and both sets of grandparents met us for supper at a truckstop restaurant and we had the buffet (my son's request). It was alot of fun and surprisingly enough I stayed awake and functional through most of the day :) and napped once we came home and before I had to go back for another night shift. Rather than the usual big birthday cake we bought one from the grocery bakery that they made out of cupcakes - great idea for kids!

Next weekend, we celebrate my niece's birthday who is actually 2 days after my son's. Although it will mostly be a celbration for my niece with the kids having a sleepover and family lunch/party the next day, we will also wish a happy birthday to my sister-in-law (whose birthday is the day after my niece) and my husband and his mother (who share a birthday). I'm going to try to post some pictures tomorrow once I get them downloaded from my camera.

Come Back Spring!

2009-03-26T12:29:00.000-05:00

Spring, where is thy warmth and sweet smell?! Correct me if I'm wrong but this IS officially spring. I realize I'm in Winnipeg where winters can last and last and it's not always guaranteed that on May long weekend you'll be able to plant without the continued risk of frost. But still........... This winter has already been so long and bitterly cold that we've all had enough. Last week there were puddles everywhere, snow was melting and you could see grass and muddy gardens, kids were riding bikes......then THIS! I'm not sure of the exact amount of snow but over the last couple days I'm sure we have more snow now than the original amount that was here. And the winds and ice under the snow, it is treacherous outside. I just cleaned my driveway yesterday of all the ice and show so I could actually get up it with out getting stuck and now it looks like I never did it. Guess, I know what I'll be doing as soon as I'm done here. After watching my kids yesterday I'd say they are ready for spring/summer too (that's the only reason I can think of for them doing what they did). While my oldest son & I were cleaning the driveway, my 3 & 5 year old were on the front step on the bench with a blanket and pillows. That part's OK but later when I looked they had taken of their boots, jackets, AND socks. Despite telling then to get dressed or they will get cold they insisted they weren't cold and continued to dance around like it was the middle of June. Needless to say, in a while they were crying and calling "Mommy, I'm Cold...". We went inside and got warmed up and everyone was better. P-L-E-A-S-E come back Spring , we are SO ready for you! Winter, winter go away and come again another day (like next year!).

Purple Day

2009-03-26T12:21:00.000-05:00

March is Epilepsy awareness month and as such I wanted to share about Purple Day. I myself have epilepsy which is controlled by medication. I have three children whom none of have epilepsy. When I was pregnant with my first child I was very concerned that I would pass this condition onto him. I did not. As I still don't understand the whole process and how this condition is passed onto our children, it is something I continue to research. My mom had epilepsy and had two children that now have it meanwhile she has "outgrown ?" the condition. And I have epilepsy and three children who do not...???... During one of my times surfing the net I found this article and want to share it with you:

A little bit about Purple Day...

Founded in 2008, by nine-year-old Cassidy Megan of Nova Scotia, Canada, Purple Day is an international grassroots effort dedicated to increasing awareness about epilepsy worldwide. On March 26, people from around the globe are asked to wear purple and spread the word about epilepsy.
Why? Epilepsy affects over 50 million people worldwide. That's more than multiple sclerosis, cerebral palsy, muscular dystrophy and Parkinson's disease combined.
Why purple? Lavender is the international colour for epilepsy.
Getting involved is easy. Wear purple and encourage others to do the same. Host a Purple Day party or fundraising event at your home, school or business. And most importantly, get real facts about epilepsy by browsing this site and those of our partners.
Cassidy's Story
Hi, my name is Cassidy Megan. I’m nine years old and I have epilepsy. I started Purple Day because I wanted to tell everyone about epilepsy, especially that all seizures are not the same and that people with epilepsy are ordinary people just like everyone else. I also wanted kids with epilepsy to know that they are not alone.
Before I started Purple Day, I was afraid to tell people about my epilepsy because I thought they would make fun of me. After the Epilepsy Association of Nova Scotia did a presentation in my class, I started to talk with the other kids about my seizures. That is when I decided to become a spokesperson for kids with epilepsy.
When I’m not in school or working on Purple Day, I like to act. I have been in a couple of commercials and was the lead in a movie featured in the Atlantic Film Festival. I also like to play outdoors with my friends, take care of my four pets, go to Girl Guides and cheerlead. My favourite thing to do is spend time with my family.
Now that you know a little about me, I’d love to learn more about you. Join the Purple Day Forums and tell us about yourself! And remember - wear purple on March 26 to support epilepsy awareness! Read more..

Happy First Day Of Spring!

2009-03-20T07:09:00.002-05:00

Well, "OFFICIAL" first day but not if you looked out the window...it still looks like winter. I must with much glee that it IS actually starting to feel like spring is in the air. I sure hope it stays this way and we don't get a nasty storm in April or even May as "Winterpeg" has been known to get. The temps have been mild and the bone chilling windchill gone allowing for the snow to start melting. Now whenever you drive on the road, you are seeing potholes everywhere (kinda like driving thru a minefield) and must avoid all the growing puddles. (Sure glad I don't have to walk the kids to school every day now or we'd be splashed/soaked daily. To mark this first day of spring the kids are looking forward to getting their bikes out today and riding them on the driveways atleast if not the road in front of our house. There is grass visible in places but unfortunately all my flower gardens are still covered in a nice white layer so no spring flowers (ie crocuses) yet. However it DOES look promising for an Easter egg hunt outside this year (unlike last year!).
HAPPY SPRING! It's been a long winter and hopefulley we can soon bid winter a farewell until next year. :D

It's Party Time

2009-03-20T06:51:00.007-05:00

Do you know what time it is?? It's party time!!... Nope I'm not talking about a birthday party or Irish party (St Patrick's Day) but that it is time for the "Ultimate Blog Party 2009"from March 20 -27, 2009. If you want to check out all the festivities go to 5 Minutes For Mom or just click on my button above and "Let's Get This Party Started!". Check out all the parties happening in the blogosphere without even leaving the comfort of your home (or wherever you are :) ) It's a great way to visit new blogs, make new friends and get visitors to your blog! So if you want to grow your network, meet new friends or promote your site, Let The Party Start!

What would a party be without music and/or prizes. Both of those will be here. Check this out… Chris Mann, Leslie Mills and Diane Birch are going to be partying with us during our Ultimate Blog Party 2009!

Both bloggers and nonbloggers will be eligible to win a list of fabulous prizes. To check out the list of prizes and instuctions on how to enter go HERE.

There are so many cool prizes to be won at this year’s Ultimate Blog Party, but my top three picks would be:
Large Yankee Candle Jar (scent: Sparkling Vanilla) from From Our Front Porch Looking In (USC 40)
$25 Gift Certificate to Amazon.ca from Just Say These Words (USC 47)
Signed copy of the book"Queen of the Castle: 52 Weeks of Encouragement for the Uninspired, Domestically Challenged or Just Plain Tired Homemaker", by Lynn Bowen Walker
And if my top three picks are already chosen, I’d love any of the following (in no particular order):
INTL 2, INTL 3, INTL 7, INTL 23, INTL 31, INTL32, INTL 33, INTL 35, USC2, USC7, USC10, USC15, USC20 or anything else related to young children since I have 3 kids aged 3, 5, and 7. Also I'd like the blog makeovers as it's about time for a new look and I don't know where to start doing that myself. :)

If you got here via Mr Linky, WELCOME! and let me introduce myself: I started blogging just over a year and a half ago. I didn't think I'd like it or have anything to blog about. Little did I know how addicting it would be. Rather than advertising anything or a way of sharing info, I guess it is more a place to share about me, myself, and my life and hopefully meet some new friends. I'm a part-time registered nurse and full-time mother to three beautiful redheads. My DH is also a full-time nurse and we've been married for eight years since we met in University. I enjoy gardening, scrapbooking and crafts of various kinds. I'm looking forward to meeting some other mothers of young children with whom I can share the experiences of motherhood and marriage and our love for the Lord. You can read more about me here on my site. Feel free to ask me any questions you may have. I have never considered myself much of a speaker. Leave me a comment letting me know you stopped by so I can come visit you too!

Be Deaf!

2009-03-18T11:49:00.001-05:00

Once Upon A Time...

Once upon a time there was a bunch
of tiny frogs.... who arranged a
running competition.
The goal was to reach the top of a
very high tower.

A big crowd had gathered around
the tower to see the race and cheer
on the contestants....
The race began....

Honestly:
No one in the crowd really believed
that the tiny frogs would reach the
top of the tower.
You heard statements such as:

"Oh, WAY too difficult!!"
"They will NEVER make it to the top."

or:
"Not a chance that they will succeed.
The tower is too high!"

The tiny frogs began collapsing. One
by one....

Except for those, who in a fresh
tempo, were climbing higher and
higher..

The crowd continued to yell, "It is
too difficult!!! No one will make it!"

More tiny frogs got tired and gave
up....

But ONE continued higher and higher
and higher....

This one wouldn't give up!

At the end everyone else had given
up climbing the tower. Except for
the one tiny frog who, after a big
effort, was the only one who
reached the top!

THEN all of the other tiny frogs
naturally wanted to know how this
one frog managed to do it?
A contestant asked the tiny frog
how he had found the strength to
succeed and reach the goal?

It turned out....
That the winner was DEAF!!!!

The wisdom of this story is:
Never listen to other people's
tendencies to be

negative or pessimistic....because
they take your most wonderful
dreams and wishes away from
you -- the ones you have in your
heart!

Always think of the power words
have. (There's life and death in
the power of the tongue - Proverbs
18:21.)

Because everything you hear and
read will affect your actions!

Therefore: ALWAYS be.... POSITIVE!

And above all:
Be DEAF when people tell YOU
that you cannot fulfill your
dreams!

Always think:
God and I can do this!

Happy Saint Patrick's Day!

2009-03-17T12:06:00.000-05:00

Kids, I'll Never Understand Them!

2009-03-12T22:03:00.002-05:00

Sorry the title got cut off...this is a Hi and Lois cartoon that was in last weekends newspaper. SOOOOOOOO True!!!! I wondered how come my kids do this and then I saw this......Do all kids act like this?! My kids can be so mad at me, rude, not listen and I get soo frustrated and/or angry. But if I leave, who do they want and get so excited when I return?!?!?

The Simple woman's Daybook ~ March 2, 2009

2009-03-02T22:16:00.005-06:00

For Today...

Outside my window... SNOW!..but the sun is shining! Today when I was listening to the weather we had a "Windchill factor" as well as a"Humidex factor"!?!

I am thinking... it will be nice to have my son's birthday somewhere that I don't have to plan , prepare and clean-up as much as I usually do. We are going to see the movie "Monster vs Aliens" and have a popcorn party, all I have to bring is the cake.

I am thankful for... my husband.

From the kitchen... our fridge and cupboards are fuller of healthy food inc. fruits and vegetables since DH has been trying to lose weight and decrease his blood pressure

I am wearing... my favorite work uniform...FROGS of course! :) Green pants with a purple top that has big frogs sitting (green) and little frogs hopping (yellow) as well as the words "Ribbit!" in white.

I am reading... Date Night In A Minivan.

I am hoping... to participate in the Blog Party this year at 5 Minutes For Moms

I am creating... this blog post, hoping to finish it before it's time to go home

I am hearing... the late News. Everyone here at work is sleeping and soon I will get to then too.

Around the house... snow everywhere. I'm looking forward to when I can look around my house and see green shoots sprouting out of the ground (ie flowers). Perhaps then also inside my house won't be quite the war zone since the kids can go outside and play more often.

One of my favorite things... ice-cream...especially Dairy Queen blizzards, our local Dairy Queen has been open for a month sow and I still haven't gone yet this year...maybe DH, the kids and I should do that later this week... :)

A few plans for the rest of the week... I'm looking forward to having three days off at home in a row. Never have I so looked forward to doing housework!

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you...

One Tree Hill, one of my favorite places during my trip to New Zealand. It is a park on an extinct volcano...a piece of paradise in the middle of a bustling city. Look at all that green grass...*sigh*...I know underneath all this snow we have some grass somewhere.

To read more Daybook entries go to Peggy's site here

Friday Fill-ins #113

2009-03-01T02:49:00.003-06:00

1. I'm a sinner, I'm saved, I want to make God smile with whatever I do.
2. Why do I have the desire to sing and dance and not the ability?
3. How does this parenting thing work, anyway? ...sometimes I so wish kids came with manuels :P
4. Every morning, I put mascara on my eyelashes .
5. I consider myself lucky because I have a beautiful family!
6. One day we’ll see Disneyworld together as a family.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to going swimming at the YMCA with the kids, tomorrow my plans include vegging and just spending time at home with my family and Sunday, I want to go to church with my hubby & kids after work !

For more Fill-in Fun go here

Simple Devotion ~ February 25, 2009

2009-02-24T20:59:00.006-06:00

For Today...

Dear Lord,

I bring you my shortcomings...for not daily spending time with you and making You a priority in my life.

I bring you my worship and praise... You are the God of Wonders beyond our galaxy...Your love for us is unconditional, NOTHING can separate us from You! Thank-you for your truth in Romans8:38-39 -For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

I bring you my prayer... teach me to pray, give me the words to say as I not only ask for requests but also praise You for what You have done and who You are. Help me to be an example of You to my children.

You spoke to me...in the movie Fireproof. Unless we know you personally, we cannot truly love others cause we don't know what Love is. "You can't give her what you don't have!" When we wonder how can we keep showing love to people that continually reject us we must remember that that is what God does ...he loves us unconditionally even though we don't deserve it and have constantly "spat in his face".

To read more Simple Devotions click here

The Simple Woman's Daybook ~ February 23rd Edition

2009-02-22T05:00:00.007-06:00

I keep saying that I need to keep a daily journal and when I saw this I thought it was a great way to blog and keep things recorded. So I'm going to give it a go.

For Today...

I am going...back to work now as my 45 minute break is over.

Outside my window...

well I'm at work and I'm on my break so as I look out the cafeteria window into the courtyard I see the large Christmas light displays (ie reindeer, snowman, Santa & elves, Christmas trees, teddy bear) lit up against the black night.

I am thinking... about all the things that I need to finish before the end of the shift and what what I am going to get accomplished tomorrow and this week.

I am thankful for... so many things but I guess the thing that is coming to my mind first right now is I'm thankful that my husband was able to catch his high blood pressure and get it treated before a major catastrophe (...considering his family history and all)

From the kitchen... we have lots of leftovers in the fridge for the next day or so - lots of veggies for salads and chicken & shrimp chow mien that I made for supper last night.

I am wearing... my nursing uniform - wine colored pants and a top with red and pink hearts with various nurses and the words "Nurse Power" as well as white socks and white shoes.

I am creating... memories daily with my kids

I am reading... right now- I'm reading THIS as I type; also I'm reading the Bible hoping to read through it this year, a book called "Date Night In A Minivan" and a book by James Dobson called "The Strong-Willed Child".

I am hoping... that my husband's 3rd dr appt in 5 days goes well tomorrow.

I am hearing... not alot considering that it is 3:20 am. The hum of the lights & vending machines as well as the keys clacking on the keyboard as I peck away.

Around the house... I need to clean up as it is starting to look like a war zone.

One of my favorite things... scrapbooking (when I get time), also I enjoy visiting with friends and spending time with my wonderful husband and three children

A few plans for the rest of the week...
not as exciting as the last few weeks were I've gone glow bowling with my mom, husband & kids; gone to the monster truck show and recently gone to Disney on Ice with the kids. This week my husband has booked off work so I'll enjoy spending time with him while the kids are at school. On Friday I'm attending a computer training inservice at work. and then more night shifts this coming weekend.

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you...
This is the frog my husband got me for Valentine's Day and the flowers my kids got me. :)

Visit Peggy at Simple Woman's Daybook to visit more daybookers.

Changes

2009-02-20T09:38:00.002-06:00

I haven't been blogging much lately but I must say there have been some things of note happening around here:
Jan 23/09- bought 2005 Echo....can you say F-R-E-E-D-O-M!!!!
Feb 17/09 - had 46" plasma TV delivered & installed - awesome! :)
Feb 20/09 - Prayer request - we have known Cliff's family history and his weight issues but today he was sent to the dr. with high blood pressure and it was the start of being prescribed 3 (4?) new cardiac medications and a lifestyle change.

Happy "2 Days After" Valentine's Day

2009-02-16T18:51:00.001-06:00

Sorry that this "Valentine's Day" post isn't on the 14th. If it counts, I was thinking about it on the day but just never had time to even turn on my computer this weekend. On Friday evening, we (all of us) went to a dinner/ dance 50th birthday party celebration for two co-workers of ours. Then Saturday morning (& Sunday morning) Cliff & I both worked from 7:30am - 3:45pm while my mom babysat the kids. Here is a picture of a couple of my Valentine's Day presents:

...(or not...) For some reason Blogger won't upload my picture right now :( So rather than waiting till whenever and REALLY being late with this post, I'll just tell you. From Cliff I got a really cute & soft frog about a foot high. He is sitting and holding a heart. While Cliff & I were at work, my mom was babysitting the kids and took them to the Dollar Store to go shopping for Mom & Dad. The kids got me flowers each - small pink ones from Wynn, peach roses from Autumn, and yellow peonies(?) from Liam. Along with the flowers they each picked out another thing for me and two things each for Cliff.

On the way home, Cliff stopped at Sobeys and picked up some groceries for supper and together we made supper when we got home - ribs, mashed potatoes, asparagus and salad. With Rolo ice-cream for the two of us later YUM! :)

What did you do for Valentine's Day?

Do You Truly Love ?

2009-02-12T07:33:00.000-06:00

I recently watched the movie Fireproof with my husband. It was such a powerful movie and I so often felt like "been there, done that". So many things said in the movie really spoke to me but the one scene that hit me the hardest and was a real eye opener was when Caleb was talking to his dad at the cross. He was so frustrated and asked his dad, "How am I supposed to love someone over and over when they constantly reject me?". And as his dad was leaning against the cross...he looked up at it and replied..."That's a good question. The answer is you can't give her what you don't have. God loves you even though you don't deserve it and have constantly spat in His face". Basically, just as we don't deserve God's love for us, our spouse doesn't always deserve love but we love anyway. After watching this movie I'm feeling that I need to rededicate my life to God and take on the challenge of the Love Dare. Did you see the movie Fireproof and if so what was your favorite part?

Also as I was reading my emails yesterday, my Girlfriends In God daily devotional also spoke to me in this area of my marriage. Let me share it here with you:

The Roman Rules of Marriage

Today's Truth
[Let your] love be sincere-a real thing." (Romans 12:9 AMP)

Friend to Friend
February is the month we celebrate love, marriage, and sweethearts. But love is more than frilly Valentine's Cards, heart-shaped candy, and bouquets of roses or balloons. Sometimes love is commitment to hard work.

If you are married, here are some questions for reflection: Do I love my husband well? Do I adore the man God has given to me? Am I admiring him as a child of God? Am I appreciating him for who he is today instead of what he could be if he lived up to my expectations? Am I giving my heart freely or do I make him feel as though he constantly has to earn my love?

Paul gives us some good advice on how to love one another in Romans 12:9-18.

Love must be sincere.
Cling to what is good.
Be devoted to one another.
Honor one another above yourselves.
Never be lacking in zeal.
Be joyful in hope.
Be patient in affliction.
Be faithful in prayer
Share with God's people who are in need.
Practice hospitality.
Bless those who persecute you.
Rejoice with those who rejoice.
Mourn with those who mourn.
Live in harmony with one another.
Do not be proud.
Do not be conceited.
Do not repay anyone evil for evil.
Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody.
If it is possible, a far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.

Now take a look at that list. It is easy to think that Paul is talking about our friends or fellow Christians. But if these are the guidelines for loving our friends, how much more are they guidelines for loving our very own husbands! As Ann Landers once said, "Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing, and forgiving. It is a loyalty through good and bad. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses."

I hope you have a wonderful Valentine's Day as you celebrate your marriage. And if you're not married, celebrate the love you share with friends, family, and your heavenly Bridegroom - Jesus Christ.

Let's Pray
Dear God of Love, I pray that I will love others well today. I pray that You will fill me with Your Holy Spirit so that I can overflow Your love to those around me. I know that loving others is Your most important command. Help me to keep that foremost in my mind and actions this day.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen.

Now It's Your Turn
Go back up to the Roman Rules above. Either write them out or print them off from this devotion. Carry this list in your pocket and glance at them often today. Check up on yourself several times through the day and see how you're doing!

If you're brave enough, ask a friend to give you honest feedback on what you do well and what needs improvement.

More From The Girlfriends
February is the month of love and a wonderful time to contemplate our marriages. Do you want to become the woman of your husband's dreams? The woman who makes him sorry to leave in the morning and eager to come home at night?

Liam's ABC's

2009-02-05T23:18:00.001-06:00

I made a book last year for my youngest son. We (he & I) attended a 10 week program offered in our community last year called Rock & Read. We spent the first half of our time reading books to our little ones and the second half, the kids stayed and played in one room while the mom's went to another room to make their book. At first I had no idea what sort of book to make. We were told to keep it simple as this was for the kids and probably anything we made for them they'd like. Suggestions were a number book, letters, theme (ie cars)... I had several pictures of Liam with me and got the idea of Liam's ABC's. Seeing that the youngest child always seems to get jipped on the number of pictures, videos, memorabilia that they have, I thought I'd make a scrapbook of sorts. Here is the final product.

Liam (in fact all the kids) really like looking at it and it was a lot of fun to make. I'm planning on making two more eventually - one for Wynn & one for Autumn.

What Does Your Candy Heart Say?

2009-02-04T23:05:00.000-06:00

Your Candy Heart Says "Hug Me"

A total sweetheart, you always have a lot of love to give out.

Your heart is open to where ever love takes you!

Your ideal Valentine's Day date: a surprise romantic evening that you've planned out

Your flirting style: lots of listening and talking

What turns you off: fighting and conflict

Why you're hot: you're fearless about falling in love

What Does Your Candy Heart Say?

Friday Fill-Ins # 108

2009-01-30T00:05:00.000-06:00

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Here we go:
1. I'd really like some poutine right now as I wait for my husband to get home and then I want my bed.

2. Fiddlesticks is the word you'd most often hear me say if I stubbed my toe.

3. Possession is 9/10's of the law.

4. Johnny Depp is the only Captain Jack Sparrow.

5. Marshmallows and fire go together like wieners and beans.

6. This is the song that never ends, it goes on and on...

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to watching the fireworks, tomorrow my plans include finish cleaning inside my van that I washed Friday and Sunday, I want to stay awake long enough after night shift to go to church!

Happy Winter!

2009-01-27T22:10:00.000-06:00

WINTER Poem

It's winter in Canada
And the gentle breezes blow
Seventy miles an hour
At thirty-five below.

Oh, how I love Canada
When the snow's up to your butt
You take a breath of winter
And your nose gets frozen shut.

Yes, the weather here is wonderful
So I guess I'll hang around
I could never leave Canada
I'm frozen to the friggin' ground!

I DON'T Think So!!

2009-01-27T17:39:00.002-06:00

I've known that potty-training my youngest is going to be difficult but this afternoon he made a comment that really worries me. "Mommy you can wipe me for the next 10 years."....NOT!!!.....Along with being able to dress himself, my son also knows how to put on a pull-up and open the sides to take it off. I don't want to rush him to do anything he's not ready to do but I'm almost certain he knows when he has to go , he's just too stubborn (I have no idea where he gets that from :)) to go to the bathroom instead of in his pants. I know he has a bowel movement every other day and so I'm quick to find him anytime he all of a sudden "disappears" upstairs. Rather than going to the toilet to have a bowel movement Liam goes upstairs and does it and if I come up looking for him he tells me to go away. Once he's done, he comes back downstairs and stinks up the place until someone catches him and changes him. HELP!! How do I get him to go to the toilet rather than hiding....He is so ready for school in the fall except that this will not be tolerated and much to his chagrin, I'm definitely not wiping him for the next 10 years, in fact I hope it's not even one more year. Any suggestions as to what to do? Do I just leave him and hope he grows out of this stubborn streak? What? I was so spoiled with my first child, he was only in pull-ups two weeks and then potty-trained, my daughter was around 3 years old but Liam.....

Gong Xi Fa Cai 4707!

2009-01-26T00:12:00.006-06:00

4704 (or 2009) is the year of the Ox.

Try Chinese New Year Quiz here and test your knowledge of Chinese New Year beliefs and traditions!

Chinese New Year is the longest and most important celebration in the Chinese calendar. The Chinese year 4707 begins on Jan. 26, 2009.

Chinese months are reckoned by the lunar calendar, with each month beginning on the darkest day. New Year festivities traditionally start on the first day of the month and continue until the fifteenth, when the moon is brightest. In China, people may take weeks of holiday from work to prepare for and celebrate the New Year.

An Obstinate Year
Legend has it that in ancient times, Buddha asked all the animals to meet him on Chinese New Year. Twelve came, and Buddha named a year after each one. He announced that the people born in each animal's year would have some of that animal's personality. Those born in ox years tend to be painters, engineers, and architects. They are stable, fearless, obstinate, hard-working and friendly. Jack Nicholson, Jane Fonda, Walt Disney, and Anthony Hopkins were all born in the year of the ox.

Famous Ox:
Barak Obama

Fireworks and Family Feasts
At Chinese New Year celebrations people wear red clothes, decorate with poems on red paper, and give children "lucky money" in red envelopes. Red symbolizes fire, which according to legend can drive away bad luck. The fireworks that shower the festivities are rooted in a similar ancient custom. Long ago, people in China lit bamboo stalks, believing that the crackling flames would frighten evil spirits.

The Lantern Festival
In China, the New Year is a time of family reunion. Family members gather at each other's homes for visits and shared meals, most significantly a feast on New Year's Eve. In the United States, however, many early Chinese immigrants arrived without their families, and found a sense of community through neighborhood associations instead. Today, many Chinese-American neighborhood associations host banquets and other New Year events.

The lantern festival is held on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month. Some of the lanterns may be works of art, painted with birds, animals, flowers, zodiac signs, and scenes from legend and history. People hang glowing lanterns in temples, and carry lanterns to an evening parade under the light of the full moon.

In many areas the highlight of the lantern festival is the dragon dance. The dragon—which might stretch a hundred feet long—is typically made of silk, paper, and bamboo. Traditionally the dragon is held aloft by young men who dance as they guide the colorful beast through the streets. In the United States, where the New Year is celebrated with a shortened schedule, the dragon dance always takes place on a weekend. In addition, many Chinese-American communities have added American parade elements such as marching bands and floats.

What Year Was I Born Under?

2009-01-24T22:59:00.004-06:00

You Were Born Under:

You are solid, methodical, and you do things right the first time.

Even when no one else does, you always believe in yourself.

You tend to see the world in black and white, right or wrong.

A good memory and eye for details means you tend to thrive at near impossible tasks.

You are most compatible with a Snake or Rooster.

What Year Were You Born Under?

What Year Should I Have Been Born Under?

2009-01-24T22:56:00.003-06:00

You Should Have Been Born Under:

You are totally loyal, faithful, and honest.

However, you don't trust others to be as ethical as you are!

Straight forward and direct, you really aren't one for small talk.

You are a great listener - and an agreeable companion when you're in a good mood!

You are most compatible with a Tiger or Horse.

What Year Should You Have Been Born Under?

Friday Fill-Ins #108

2009-01-24T22:25:00.002-06:00

Come play with me and click on the link here to visit others' fill-ins. Here we go:

1. Oh, I am so tired!
2. I don't like changes, big or little.
3. During movies, I always get emotional .
4. We were the coldest place IN THE WORLD last week; are you kidding me???
5. Right now I'd like to be enjoying 42* in New Zealand and enjoying the "summer" .
6. My computer is my favorite gadget.
7. And as for the weekend, Friday I enjoyed taking my kids swimming at the YMCA , Saturday my plans include driving our new (to us) Echo to work and Sunday, I want to go to church with my husband and children!

New Leadership

2009-01-21T14:48:00.003-06:00

Yesterday was a big day for the people of the United States (and many other people watching). Probably many of you were watching your t.v.s yesterday morning and taking in the inauguration of the first black American president. Even at work (I was working on the palliative care unit) anybody who wasn't immediately busy was flocking in front of the flat screen to listen To President Obama give his speech. Unfortunately I didn't get to watch it as I had to attend to a patient however I did watch it on Youtube this morning. It seems that many people every where paused yesterday where ever they were to watch Barack Obama make history. As President Obama was swept into power on promises of hope and change at a time of crisis, many are regarding him as some new kind of savior who will heal broken relationships, save the environment, and bring an end to bloodshed and war. I couldn't help but think about the sermon series my pastor shared titled "Letters to the Prime-Minister" during our own elections last fall. The first part was titled (1)"The Need For Moral Authority" and the second part titled (2)"Let History Judge Your Actions". I just want to share these and pray that Obama will lead the country with these values.

(Part 1) If we are having a problem with someone in authority, the reason we may not respect the authority is because of a discrepancy between something they say and do. "I will obey but I won't respect"...that is a lack of moral authority. Moral authority comes from a consistency between the values a leader espouses and the values they live out. Moral authority positions us to influence people at their deepest levels: their hearts, minds, and consciences. The Bible shows an excellent example of this in the life of Nehemiah (Nehemiah 5). Nehemiah confronts the illegal practices of the people of Israel. He demands they pay back what they owe and meanwhile Nehemiah refuses to take from the people what is rightfully his (ie taxes). He knew if you want to be first, you have to be last. If you want to be a leader, you have to be a servant. In the movie Braveheart when William Wallace, a commoner fighting for the people, speaks to a leader of the people he basically says the same thing when he says, "You think the people exist to provide for your nobility but I think nobility exists so that they might provide for his people." Leaders need authority that goes beyond 'I'm the president and I say so' The sermon was closed with this letter to the new leader : Dear President Obama (leader's name), Over the next few years, you'll be reminded daily of our approval of your performance. set your sights beyond our approval. We want you to lead in such a way as to gain and maintain our respect. For that to happen there must be consistency between what you say and what you do. This alignment will allow you to lead those who selected your party and those who did not. Be the first president to give away 20% of your annual income publicly. So as to remove any doubt that you are truly a man that cares about the less fortunate in our nation & the world. A quote by Lewis Fisher reads, " History is the chronicle of divorces between creed & deed. We pray that won't be the case for your administration. Our hope is that you'll be a president whose actions reflect the promises you made and the values that you claim to embody and if that is the case, you'll have something more valuable than our approval. You'll have our respect.

(Part 2) We need a leader not as concerned with making people happy as bringing people back to being disciplined and having a margin. They need to lead as then is now. Living in a rich nation, such as Canada & the U.S.A leads to rich nation problems AKA indiscipline problems. An example of this in the Bible is the story of Joseph & Pharaoh (Genesis 41 & 47). A rich nation is about to go through a rough season of turmoil. The leader (Pharaoh) needs to make tough decisions even though he doesn't understand and it won't make everyone happy. In the story, Joseph's brothers sell him into slavery. As a prisoner, Joseph interprets Pharaoh's dreams. He will have 7 years of abundance and prosperity followed by 7 years of famine. Then all the abundance will be forgotten. In the end, Pharaoh made some great leadership decisions:

He led with the future in mind.
He didn't assume unending prosperity.
He prepared the nation for what he believed was ahead.
He listened to outsiders.
He didn't let personal prejudice blind him from good advice.

We as a people in a "rich nation" see prosperity after prosperity. We need a leader not worried about what people think but will do what 's right for the nation. That's the type of leader that solves problems in a nation that's affluent, that lives beyond it's means. Pride is often easier seen in others, especially leaders. One of the dangers of pride is that it blinds us to the needs of people around us. The opposite of pride is humility and this is a virtue we look for in a leader. Ken Blanchard points out, "Humility does not mean you think less of yourself. It means you think of yourself less." The sermon was closed with this letter to the new leader: Dear President Obama (leader's name), Lead us, don't try to please us. This generation will always be consumed with this generation. We are accustomed to getting our own way. Don't let that influence you. Lead this generation with the next generation in mind. Lead as if then is now. Be content to let history judge your actions rather than current public opinions. We don't want you to be fair, don't aim for fair. Fairness rarely leads to compassion. It often leads to confusion. Instead, do what's right. Remain open to the voices of outsiders and God may grace you with a Joseph.

Weather Update

2009-01-21T12:56:00.000-06:00

Sorry I didn't get back Sunday like said I would. I've been working the last four days and I can't remember the last time "I" spent time on the computer. Also, I've been enjoying our "balmy" weather. Ok, so it's not the high of +2 they forecasted for Sunday but it did get as warm as -3 (and NO windchill!!). And that I'll take anyday over -50 windchill. And just for the record, that is waaayyyy warmer than I imagined it possibly getting in less than a week.....I sure hope weather forecasters don't have stinky feet....;)

Friday Fill-Ins #106

2009-01-14T13:18:00.000-06:00

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Here we go:

1. It's January; and its C-O-L-D!

2. A trip to somewhere warm is what I crave most right now.

3. Cork and wine go together like a mom and her kids.

4. God's Word is so nourishing.

5. Let us dare to do something wild and crazy without worrying about what others think.

6. We need more money to continue renovations we want to do to our home.

7. And as for the rest of the week, tonight I'm looking forward to taking Wynn to Beavers and then going grocery shopping (heh! any reason to get out :/), tomorrow my plans include taking Liam to playgroup in the morning and going to my lecture (Elder Care Interest Series) in the evening about "The Relationship of Caring" and Friday, I want to play with the kids as they have the day off school!

Yeah Right!! (with a note of sarcasm)

2009-01-14T13:00:00.000-06:00

I definitely want it to warm up, considering we've been in this deep freeze for a month and a half now but really......To go from -50 windchill (today)to +2 degrees (Sunday)!!??! Despite the cold weather, I've been in spring cleaning mode for the last week. Perhaps being cooped up in the house for so long and having to constantly look at my cluttered house has given me to motivation I need to get things organized. Whatever the reason, I'll take it. Cleaning is one of those things I need to be in the mood to do (well). By the way, my cleaning spree has been the main reason I haven't posted for so long, sorry.
I'll keep you posted on whether the weather man is actually right this time. If he is, I'm going to have to find out who this guy is and kiss his feet. (If I'm not too frozen).

2008 Ryden Family Newsletter

2009-01-08T12:07:00.001-06:00

Here is the letter that I finished and am getting ready to send out. Sorry it is so short but I figured if I made it too wordy I'd never get it finished, you probably wouldn't want to read it and I realized that next year I need to be more organized. Maybe I'll discipline myself to keep a journal or record monthly happenings through the year and it will be easier to look back at year end. Anyway here's what I manged to hen-scratch together and please feel free to ask me questions if I left something out or something doesn't make sense.

2008 In Review

Hello Everyone. Just the fact that this is getting from an idea to paper is a feat in and of itself. Each year I think "I'm going to write a letter re our year and send it at Christmas"...but alas I never do. Well rather than waiting until next Christmas to try again, I'm going to do it right now since much of the busyness of the holidays is settling down now. For those of you reading this in paper letter form (vs. cyber-letter) please forgive me that the paper isn't Christmas but I thought if I waited for different paper it may just be another excuse to procrastinate. Just think of it as a Valentine's letter :). So, here's what we've been up to:

Rachael: I started off the year taking some driving lessons as I prepared to go for my driver's license. Learning to drive in Winnipeg winter can be fun to say the least. But I'm sure glad I have that experience to fall back on now....If I'm able to drive in our winters I bet can can drive anywhere! :) I ended up becoming fully legal at the end of March. :) I must say being able to drive has freed me up to do alot more. But even with only the one vehicle it is hard to do everything. I'm blessed to have my mom close by and offer to be "my personal taxi" when able and drive me when Cliff has the van. Since I work weekends, there is one weekend a month that Cliff & I both work and it's then that my mom & Cliff's mom take turns babysitting once a month. With the onset of warm weather in the spring, the kids & I eagerly drove off to the greenhouses. I made two more flower gardens this year. The kids now each have a garden of their own and enjoy watching the new growth come up and tending their gardens. Also in the spring we found a new church to attend. They are growing and have to build a new building so currently meet in a school gymnasium (and basement for Sunday School). The congregation is mosly young adults. The kids and I really enjoy it and Cliff has joined me occasionally when not at work. We've also found a Life-Group to be a part of and it is great since I can't always make it Sunday due to work. In June, my mom , my brother(Matt) & I went to New Zealand for 10 days. The initial reason for the trip was to be present for my Aunt & Uncle's 40th anniversary. This was the first time I've been back to New Zealand since coming to Canada at 2 months of age. It was awesome to see the beautiful country...even in winter! Extinct volcanos, tropical flowers, palm trees on the roadsides, the ocean, mountains, animals, caves....God is an awesome artist. I also got to meet many relatives for the fist time. I want to go back again in their summer season and take the rest of my family with me. They have GOT TO see this place to believe how beautiful it is and I want the rest of my NZ family to meet my husband and kids. The only thing that may be a problem is convincing Cliff to board a plane for 13 hours straight, much of it over the water! I'll cross that bridge when it comes. :)
Then in August, more visiting. One day I received an unexpected phone call from my mom & dad (Jim & JoAnne) in Calgary asking if is ok to come for a vist. three days later, Mom, Dad, Shi-anne, Ben & Ashley along with their dog, drove out for a visit. It was great to see them and my kids really enjoyed meeting their relatives from Calgary. They are still asking me when we can go back and see them "Can we go this weekend?..." Near the end of the month, I left my hubby & kids again and went to NB for a week. I was able to see one of my best friends get married. The last time I saw her, she was a bridesmaid at my wedding 8 years ago! It was great to see many old friends again and see my my old stomping grounds.
I know it sounds here like I run off from home alot but I don't really. Most of the time I'm at home busy being a mother of three and wife. Since Liam was born I went down to a 0.2 at work. My schedule is every other weekend and I occasionally pick up extra shifts when our schedule allows. I still work as a registered nurse at Riverview Health Centre but am working on a personal care unit (PCH) now.

Cliff: Cliff is still employed as a full-time registered nurse at Riverview Health Centre. He workds on the Special Needs unit which is mostly Alzheimer's care. Both times this past year while I was off globe-trotting, he stayed at home with the kids. It was great bonding time for Daddy & his kids and they got to go spend time at Grandma & Grandpa Ryden's (Daddy's parents'). Over the last year we did many exterior renovations to the house including new windows and the stucco was removed from the house and replaced with vinyl siding. Also we got a new patio door. It is much nicer cosmetically and less drafty in our Winnipeg winter. Future renovations that Cliff would like to do "when we win the lottery" (his words) would be to replace our shingles with a tin roof and to build a larger garage.

Wynn: Wynn is Wynn is 7 years old now (will be 8 in just a couple months!). He's in Grade 2 and is an excellent reader. He doesn't like to stop and read or do any sort of work. He's always on the go but I'm told "he's just a boy!" He has a vivid imagination and likes to play video games (XBOX 360) with his dad. He keeps growing and is now up to my shoulders (not that that's hard ;)). A couple more years and my baby will be taller than me!! He's lost several baby teeth already and infact lost another last night. So along with his gaping grin he also sports two adult teeth. He is very sociable and makes friends easily. Wynn is in his third year as a Beaver (Scouts Canada) and is looking forward to being a wolf cub in the fall. He started 2008 off with skating lessons once a week and really enjoyed that. Then in the summer he took swimming lessons and wanted to continue so last fall and now he is taking swimming lessons at the YMCA and is a Seal. In the summer along with riding his bike, he also enjoyed roller-blading around the block.

Autumn: Autumn is 5 years old and turning into quite the little lady. Although she tells me she'll always be MY little girl. :D Autumn is also growing up, she now weighs as much as Wynn. Last year Autumn went to Kindergarten Here We Come twice a week and really enjoyed it. It was then that I realized just how much she was maturing and not attached to my leg like she used to be. In the fall she started Kindergarten - full day, every day. Autumn REALLY enjoys crafts of any sort, reading and writing. She can write and spell everybody's name in our family by herself! As well, Autumn enjoys dancing & singing. Autumn is in her third year of Rhythmic Gymnastics. She enjoys it and is very good at it. If the interest continutes she wants to do it competively "like the big girls"...we'll see. Along with Wynn, Autumn took skating lessons last winter and is now in swimming lessons. She is at the Otter level. Just this fall, Autumn started Sparks (Girl Guides) and is really enjoying it and has made many new friends. She enjoys selling cookies door-to-door. Especially in the fall cause she got to ride her bike around (without training wheels :) ) I guess this time I'll be pulling her on the sled.

Liam: My baby is no longer a baby, he is now 3 years old. We call him a "string-bean". He is almost as tall as Autumn but very slim so needless to say finding the right size clothes to fit him can be a challenge. Liam enjoys going to playgroup two mornings a week and is looking forward to when he can go to school "like Autumn & Wynn". The one thing we are still working on before that can happen is his pottytraining. He knows when he has to go but refuses to go to the toilet....He's very stubborn like his parents. Liam has a large vocabulary - I guess that comes with having older siblings. He enjoys playing with others or alone. He also enjoyed riding his bike when the weather permitted and is now in swimming lessons. Last summer it was Parented L'il Dippers (I'd join) but now he's in Unparented L'il Dippers and he is sometimes hesitant to put his head under the water unless I'm beside him.

2009:

(A blank paper that has yet to be written on. How exciting!, may this be a great year!)

Inventory Time

2009-01-05T20:04:00.002-06:00

The following is a devotional that I read today and really puts things into perspective for the New Year. I so need to take inventory of my spiritual life.
This is a New Year...a blank page that has not yet been written on...

Today's Truth
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28 (NIV)

Friend to Friend
The tree is down, the decorations are packed away and the company has all gone home. I hope you all enjoyed the holidays and have emerged, relatively unscathed, ready to face a New Year. If you have ventured out into the malls, you have discovered those stores that were crammed full for a solid month are now almost deserted in comparison. The store clerks that just days ago welcomed you with open arms and flashing smiles now ignore you as if you were an intrusion. There's a reason. They are busy taking their yearly inventory. We need to do the same.

A spiritual inventory is an important tool of growth in our walk with God. How can we know where we are headed if we don't know where we have been? What lessons did we learn during the last year? What do we want to keep and what needs to be tossed aside as we face a new year? What changes need to happen and what needs to remain the same? What new choices do we need to make in order to achieve new goals -- the right goals?

It is often so easy to keep on doing "the next thing." We put one foot in front of the other, casually drifting through a life without purpose, only to wake up one day to discover that we have wasted much of that life on the "unimportant." I don't know about you, but I have reached the point in life where I absolutely refuse to live in survival mode. I want my life to count ... to make an impact.

For several nights, I have found myself lying awake for hours, pondering the "next step." I am on my knees asking God for His direction, and trusting Him to make those steps clear. I have decided that when I can't understand the plan or see what's just ahead, I will choose to trust God. It is a decision I make continually.

This New Year, 2009, is not just another year; it is another chapter of life, filled with opportunities, challenges and fresh purpose. I choose against my "old nature" that wants to just sit back and rest in the warmth of yesterday's victories or hide in the darkness of yesterday's defeats.

Instead, I choose to strain both victory and defeat through the promise of Romans 8:28 that all things work together for good, learning the truths and lessons that need to be learned while embracing God's highest plan for my life. We do not have to settle for anything less than knowing God and pursuing all that He holds in His hands for each one of us. Right now, pick up that pad and pencil and get started on your own personal inventory. May this be the most God-honoring year of your life.

Let's Pray
Father, thank You for all that You have done in my life this year. There are so many times during the past year when I would not have made it through the day without Your power and presence. Help me to apply the lessons of 2008 in this New Year so that I will grow and become more like You, leading others to seek and know You. I love You, Father, and praise You for all that You have in store for me in 2009. May my life be a trophy of Your grace, mercy and love.

In Jesus' name, I pray
Amen.

Now It's Your Turn
Set aside a few hours this week to review 2008.

What lessons have you learned? How did you learn them?
What new truths has God given you? How are you applying those truths in your daily life?
What new perspective has God given you this year? In what way will that perspective change habits and behaviors in your life during 2009?
Make a step-by-step plan for implementing a daily quiet time alone with God. Choose the place, gather your materials and select the time of day when you will most likely have a few minutes of uninterrupted time.
When you fail, begin again. God will honor your commitment.

More From The Girlfriends
Around our house, the "after-Christmas" activity of choice is what one of my friends calls "purging". Every year, she packs up the Christmas decorations and begins a diligent room-by-room, closet-by-closet, box-by-box search for anything she did not use during the past year. Family heirlooms and items of sentimental value are the only treasures excluded. Everything else is fair game, and if she hasn't used it in a year and doesn't foresee using it this year, out it goes! We should apply the same tactic to the attitudes, behaviors, habits and disciplines of our spiritual journey. We have hopefully learned valuable lessons, gained fresh truths and molded more godly perspectives during the past twelve months. Now is the time to plug each truth and perspective into daily life.

Each year I plan on writing a letter of our year in review but as you've noticed it never happens. I am not very good about writing letters at the best of times. Things get busy and it is too easy to procrastinate and say "I just didn't have time...". So even though it is AFTER Christmas and the end of 2008, I'm going to attempt writing a summary of our year in review and send it to my family and friends that we rarely, if ever see and would appreciate hearing about our year. I'm also going to post it here for those of you to read once I get it done.

I've been reflecting a bit on the questions above and must admit I've had some difficulty in finding answers to them. What lessons have I learned? A rather general lesson but very important all the same is to appreciate our friends and family and not take them for granted. We are all here for a time and do not know when our Lord will call us home. Also I need to keep myself a devotional journal. I'm sure I've learned many things but find it difficult to recall later.
New truths and perspectives? God's love is unconditional and He loves us and accepts us just as we are. He wants us to come to Him just as we are. As much as we may try, we can never be like Him until He works through us and changes us to be like Him. Changes in behaviours and habits? Change me Lord and make me less judgemental of others. Step-by-step plan for implementind a daily quiet time alone with God? I'm making it my goal to spend atleast 15 minutes each day alone with God. I have so many materials but don't use them. I plan to use the Girlfriends In God devotionals and the weekly online Bible Studies "Life For The Journey". Also, for Christmas I got a Message Bible. As for the place, I'm thinking probably in the livingroom after the kids have gone to bed. So often when I've tried in my room I get distracted by the tv or get comfortable in bed and....well you know.

Anyway I should get going and get kids to bed so I can start writing my year in review letter which you will hopefully be able to read soon.

LATE ENTRY

2009-01-04T22:32:00.005-06:00

That is what we have to write in the patients charts at work when we want to chart something later than when it actually happened. Last month we went to the Assiniboine Valley Railway as an outing with Wynn's Beaver's group. I had every intention of blogging about it but as you can see, it never happened. I finally got the pics on my computer and figured better late than never. The kids were all so excited to go. Even I was looking forward to it as I've been in Winnipeg 12 years now and still never gone here. When you drive past their treed in lot all you can see are Christmas light covered arches going down the driveway and disappearing into the trees Who would have known what lay beyond those arches.... A seven acre property with a one mile railway track for a 1/8 scale miniature train on a 7.5 inch gauge railway. Each Christmas they have a Christmas Light Run and you can ride the train and enjoy the over 95,000 lights they had this year. Unfortunately it was soooo cold that even the tracks were too cold for the train to run properly so they were only taking about 4-5 people at a time and rather than using both our tickets we only used one and will have to go back later when it is warmer. However we did get a few pictures before we froze solid and had to go home for hot chocolate and thaw out.

A Fun Day

2009-01-03T19:45:00.002-06:00

Wow, the day is almost done and I accomplished .....nothing; zilch; nada; zip....but I had fun. Just after lunch mom picked the kids and me up and we went downtown to the IMAX theater to see Madagascar 2 . It was hilarious and a definite must to buy and add to our library once it is out in stores. Have any of you seen it? The kids love theaters anyway but this was awesome. With the screen so big and the surround sound, it was like being there. Unfortunatley, since Cliff had to work and Ted was also working, we ventured through the mall and then went out for supper to Applebee's.

Now we are back home, it is back to the real world. Gotta make a casserole with some of the leftovers in my fridge and get kids ready for bed. I'm looking forward to going to church as we haven't been there for a couple weeks with work and the holidays. Also it is hard to believe that school (and everything else) will be starting up again the day after tomorrow.

Happy New Year!

2009-01-01T06:16:00.003-06:00

Hello Everyone out there! Sorry about the sudden stop in posting, I honestly don't know where the last two months of the year (2008) went. Busy with work and family and Christmas preparations but even with all that I'm sure I could of had time for blogging......?????.......Anyway......
A few people have asked me re my New Year's Resolution(s) and I honestly couldn't tell them. Well, since a chat with a very good and wise friend of mine, I think I can honestly say I now know my resolution....To make regular (monthly?) "ME" time. "Taking time for yourself will contribute to better parenting." I know this in my mind but it is hard to put into practice.
Oh my, look at the time, end of night shift and time to go. I'll be back later. Have you any New Year's Resolutions?

Friday Fill-Ins #95

2008-10-25T23:00:00.004-05:00

To see more responses click link.

Ok, here we go......

1. Right now, I'm feeling very tired as I'm finishing a double shift and knowing I'll be back here in 8 hours.
2. In bed beside my husband is where I want to be.
3. How does one know what to cook everyday that the kids will eat?
4. Making a list of things to do keeps me on track.
5. Please don't ignore me as if I'm not here.
6. My children's smiles fill me with joy.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to taking the kids swimming and getting back to life with no one ill or throwing up, tomorrow my plans include taking the kids to my mom's while Hubby & I work and Sunday, I want to play with my kids as I haven't seen much of them all weekend!

Text: RYB

2008-10-21T13:15:00.004-05:00

I am not in the technoligically elite who send or receive text messages and who apparently no matter where these people are, if the get a text , they have to stop and read it. However I'm just as bad with IM on the computer, if I see a flashing orange box, I have to stop what I'm doing or excuse my kids as "I just have to check this". At church we just finished a sermon series about if God send you a text message, would you read it? The truth is He has, it is called the Bible. One of the reasons texts are so alluring is that they are relevant and personal. Well that's the same as the Bible, it is both relevant and personal. It is a guide to our feet and a light to our path. The Bible is the greatest miracle as it is made up of 66 books, over 40 authors and spans 1500 years. Yet they all tell the same story - redemption. Beyond just reading the bible my pastor encouraged us that we should take it to the next level and go beyond reading and PERSONALIZE the scriptures. One scrpiture that has been speaking to me is Romans 8:38,39. - ...nothing can seperate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord!....not lonliness, self-doubt, low self confidence, finances, economic hardship, divorce, family difficulties, anger....NOTHING! His love endures forever! This is repeated over and over for us in Pslam 136 and I personlized it here:

To Him who allowed me to grow up with a Christian influence through various churches, youth groups and Christain school.
His love endures forever.

To Him who burdened my heart for the ministry
His love endures forever.

and provided a way for me to go overseas,
His love endures forever.

and had his angels watch over me while overseas in a foreighn culture.
His love endures forever.

To Him who put dear friends in my life
His love endures forever.

and who provides a way for us to keep in touch even miles apart.
His love endures forever.

To Him who holds the whole world in His hands
His love endures forever.

and provides for every little thing even when we don't understand His ways.
His love endures forever.

To Him who brought my husband and I together
His love endures forever.

and has us in the same profession allowing us to be a support for each other.
His love endures forever.

Even when I have a bad day, He never leaves me.
His love endures forever.

To Him who blessed with three strong, happy, and healthy children
His love endures forever.

who love Him and want to know more of Him.
His love endures forever.

To Him who provides everything my family needs.
His love endures forever.

To Him who made the seasons, colors, and the sun to rise and set.
His love endures forever.

To Him who loves us even when we stumble and helps us back up on solid ground.
His love endures forever.

To Him who comforts me when I'm lonely or feel far from Him.
His love endures forever.

To Him who weaves the plot of our story-His story-from beginning to end.
His love endures forever.

Friday Fill-ins #94

2008-10-16T22:15:00.004-05:00

1. Follow the Leader.
2. My digital camera is something I always take with me on vacation.
3. To achieve your goals, you must be organized and stick with it.
4. I've been overseas to several different countries and cultures but I haven't been to Europe and REALLY want to go someday is something I'd like you to know about me.
5. I have a frog fettish (that's a good thing right...atleast that's what I meant to say- I had frogs on my wedding cake & invites, frog stuffies, frog decor in my house...my nickname is even Toad). 6. Anything that floats makes a great pool toy.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to spending the evening alone with my youngest as the others go to a party, tomorrow my plans include working and Sunday, I want to go to church before working again!

Click the image above to read more great Friday Fill-ins!

A Halloween-Loving Christian?

2008-10-16T19:04:00.001-05:00

I found this article last year and never did get around to posting it. I, myself, wouldn't say that Halloween is anywhere near my favorite holiday however my kids enjoy it and therefore I also participate in the fun of the evening. Such as dressing up, getting & receiving candy and playing a variety of games. We do not participate in the scary, gory or violent aspects of the day. I have talked with several people (many of them christians) and they all have different feelings toward Halloween. I understand where many come from that are against it but I have never been convicted for recognizing the holiday. I just wanted to share this article as it says much of how I feel but in better writing style than I could do.
http://blog.todayschristianwoman.com/walkwithme/2007/10/a_halloweenloving_christian.html
At the end are many comments, some agreeing and some against. What are you feelings toward Halloween?

One Year + a Day

2008-10-15T11:45:00.005-05:00

Oops, as many other things, I had good intentions but I'm late again. I realized last week that it will be one year since I started this blog on October 14 and I decided I'd write a one year post. Well, it is now October 15th!!!! OOPS (again)!!! I started this blog off last year after one failed attempt to do a blog. So I tried again at the encouragement of a friend who has been blogging for several years, you can check out here blog here. I honestly didn't think I'd have anything interesting to say or be able to stick with it. Well here I am...STILL and I must admit there were definite periods of "'drought & famine" on Toad's Secret Spot but I'm enjoying it all the same. It is a great way to keep a journal of times past, precious once-in-a-moment memories that you may not remember a year later, and to communicate with friends and loved ones. As well as the opportunity to meet new friends and read other blogs...feeling like I have more of a social network than is visible. Also, I'm using it as a way to motivate myself to self-improvement. Well, must be off so here is to another great year. I know that kids grow up fast and the 5th birthday is here before you know it.....hopefully I can say the same thing about my blog. Thank-you to those of you you have commented and supported me in the past year. Here are a list of all who have visited (and left a comment on) my blog in it's first year. I must say I was very surprised as to how long this list is. I honestly thought there would just be a few and I could compile this list much quicker...anyway here it is, check them out as there are many interesting blogs here:

Gill http://gills-jottings.blogspot.com/
Janet http://fridayfillins.blogspot.com/
BJ http://freedomfiles.homeschooljournal.net/
Judy http://www.blogger.com/profile/10613338367975508740
LarryG http://ytfe.blogsot.com/
J http://www.missmodderpotts.blog.com/
Rachael's Mom www.blogger.com/profile/18244542808232865104
Jennifer http://jenniferhendrickson.blogspot.com/
cj http://cjreading.blogspot.com/
Jack http://slightlyoff-center.blogspot.com/
SandyM http://sandystyl.blogspot.com/
Crazy Daisy http://foreverdaisies.blogspot.com/
smileyes http://smiletodayandeveryday.blogspot.com/
eastcoastlife http://eastcoastlife.blogspot.com/
Hi, I'm Robyn http://ilovegiveaways.blogspot.com/, http://cookinwithfriends.blogspot.com/
Misty http://mistywagner.blogspot.com/
BrineS http://readravereview.blogspot.com/, http://acupofjoy.wordpress.com/, http://acupofjoy.wordpress.com/
the 160 acre woods http://the100acrewoods.com/
tvollowitz@aol.com
Bad Momma http://bad-momma.blogspot.com/
susan http://susansmusing.wordpress.com/
Angie (Angelica Grace Designs) http://angelicagracedeigns.com/blog/index.html
Jessica http://www.blogger.com/profile/12170043582358554487
Gretchen http://jewelsinmycrownsomeday.blogspot.com/
Nadine http://justbeingme1.blogspot.com/
Lauren http://beneshes.blogspot.com/
joyful days http://ourjoyfuldays.blogspot.com/
susan http://bygrace3.blogspot.com/
KC http://mindlesschatterofabusymom.blogsot.com/
Melissa http://melissa-snapshots.blogspot.com/
Vicky
Andrea R http://atypicalife.net/blog
Heather's Brain http://heathersbrain.blogspot.com/
Rhen (yestheyareallmine) http://yestheyareallmine.wordpress.com/
Veronica Mitchell http://toddledrege.com/

Happy Thanksgiving

2008-10-09T09:49:00.004-05:00

A woman was asked by a coworker,
'What is it like to be a Christian?'

The coworker replied, 'It is like being a pumpkin.'
God picks you from the patch, brings you in,
and washes all the dirt off of you.
Then He cuts off the top and scoops out all the yucky stuff.He removes the seeds of doubt, hate, and greed.
Then He carves you a new smiling face and
puts His light inside of you to shine for all the world to see.'

I got this in my email and thought it was so true. Can't say I've ever heard it put like that before, but from one pumpkin to another I wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. I so love the fall season and how nature just shouts God's praise with all it's beauty. In this season of thanksgiving there are so many things I'm thankful for but to just name a few I'd have to say my beautiful family, my friends that are always there for me no matter how far away they are (as most of them are). I'm thankful I was able to reunite with many of them this summer, thankful for the food in my cupboards and especially the eggnog I was drinking last night :) Thankful for my warm cozy house, especially now that is is so cold and wet outside. Thank you God that I was finally able to get my driver's licence and still have it 6 months later. Also I'm thankful for wet little kisses and warm little cuddles. :)

Good For A Laugh

2008-09-29T13:37:00.034-05:00

1952
1954
1956
1958
1960
1962
1964
1966
1968
1970
1972
1974
1976
1978
1980
1982
1984
1986
1988
1990
1992
1994
1996
1998
2000 Anybody who knew me growing up, knows I did NOT look like that in the 80's, 90's or 2000...which is infact the year I was married. But it's still fun to see these pics. If you want to try it go to www.yearbookyourself.com and have fun! :)

The Big Book List

2008-09-27T22:03:00.004-05:00

I am on a campaign to read some decent, classic-type literature. I used to read more for fun and relaxation, which means that nine times out of ten if you had a look at the book I was reading it was probably some kind of light-hearted "fluff"- chick-lit, that sort of thing. Then when I went to school, most of what I read was nursing related (lots of journal articles for research and required readings. I never seemed to have time for me books anymore. And now that I'm a married mother I seem to gravitate toward parenting and marriage books but seeing how much others have read (even my husband), I got inspired to up my reading-level. I found this book list ona blog I read and it looked like a good place to start and catch up on all the classics I apperently missed or didn't make time for. I was horrified to see that I have only read a few of the books on the list and think I may have read others but can't remember. Good grief! So I am thinking Ill try working my way through some of them, in an attempt to become more educated and academic ;-)The list I mentioned is a meme kind of thing and the deal is that you:1) Look at the list and bold those you have read.2) Italicize those you started but did not finish.3) Underline the books you LOVE - on blogger can't underline :(, so I made them red for "love".4) Highlight green-the ones you still want to read but just have not had a chance yet.5) Reprint this list in your own blog so we can try and track down these people who’ve read 6 or less and force books upon them.
1. The Time Traveller’s Wife - Audrey Niffenegger
2. The Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy - Douglas Adams
3. The Handmaid’s Tale - Margaret Atwood
4. Lord of the Flies - William Golding
5. Life of Pi - Yann Martel
6. The Secret Garden - Frances Hodgson Burnett
7. The Color Purple - Alice Walker
8. Adventures of Sherlock Holmes - Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
9. Jane Eyre - Charlotte Bronte
10. To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee
11. Wuthering Heights - Emily Bronte
12. Nineteen Eighty Four - George Orwell
13. His Dark Materials (trilogy) - Philip Pullman
14. Great Expectations - Charles Dickens
15. Catch 22 - Joseph Heller
16. The Hobbit - J.R.R. Tolkien
17. Catcher in the Rye - J.D. Salinger
18. Brideshead Revisited - Evelyn Waugh
19. Crime and Punishment - Fyodor Dostoyevsky
20. Alice in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll
21. Chronicles of Narnia - C.S. Lewis (Hubby owns them and I see them on the bookshelf everyday...guess I should read them)
22. The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe – C.S. Lewis
23. Winnie the Pooh - A.A. Milne
24. Animal Farm - George Orwell
25. Brave New World - Aldous Huxley
26. Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck
27. On The Road - Jack Kerouac
28. Oliver Twist - Charles Dickens
29. Charlotte’s Web - E.B. White (I'm going to read this one to my kids)
30. Hamlet - William Shakespeare (we did the play in high school)
31. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory - Roald Dahl (we have seen the movie, but I'm also going to read this one to my kids)
32. Complete Works of Shakespeare
33. Ulysses - James Joyce
34. Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad
35. Les Miserables - Victor Hugo
36. Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen
37. The Bible
38. The Great Gatsby - F. Scott Fitzgerald
39. War and Peace - Leo Tolstoy
40. Grapes of Wrath - John Steinbeck
41. Anna Karenina - Leo Tolstoy
42. The Kite Runner - Khaled Hosseini (my mom has the book and me husband read it but I have yet to)
43. One Hundred Years of Solitude - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
44. Sense and Sensibility - Jane Austen
45. The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time - Mark Haddon
46. Lolita - Vladimir Nabokov
47. The Little Prince - Antoine De Saint-Exupery
48. A Confederacy of Dunces - John Kennedy Toole
49. The Lord of the Rings - JRR Tolkien (saw the movies)
50. Harry Potter series - JK Rowling
51. Little Women - Louisa M. Alcott (and we picked up Little Men free and I plan to read it as well)
52. Tess of the D’Urbervilles - Thomas Hardy
53. Rebecca - Daphne Du Maurier
54. Birdsong - Sebastian Faulks
55. Middlemarch - George Eliot
56. Gone With The Wind - Margaret Mitchell (saw and own the movies)
57. Bleak House - Charles Dickens
58. The Wind in the Willows - Kenneth Grahame
59. David Copperfield - Charles Dickens
60. Emma - Jane Austen
61. Persuasion - Jane Austen
62. Captain Corelli’s Mandolin - Louis De Bernieres
63. Memoirs of a Geisha - Arthur Golden
64. The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown
65. A Prayer for Owen Meaney - John Irving
66. The Woman in White - Wilkie Collins
67. Anne of Green Gables – L.M. Montgomery (and saw and own the movies)
68. Far From The Madding Crowd - Thomas Hardy
69. Atonement - Ian McEwan
70. Dune - Frank Herbert (this one sounds familiar but I can't remember if I read it or not)
71. Cold Comfort Farm - Stella Gibbons
72. A Suitable Boy - Vikram Seth
73. The Shadow of the Wind - Carlos Ruiz Zafon
74. A Tale Of Two Cities - Charles Dickens (I think we read this in high school, but again I can't remember)
75. Love In The Time Of Cholera - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
76. The Secret History - Donna Tartt
77. The Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold
78. Count of Monte Cristo - Alexandre Dumas
79. Jude the Obscure - Thomas Hardy
80. Bridget Jones’ Diary - Helen Fielding
81. Midnight’s Children - Salman Rushdie
82. Moby Dick - Herman Melville
83. Dracula - Bram Stoker
84. Notes From A Small Island - Bill Bryson
85. The Bell Jar - Sylvia Plath
86. Swallows and Amazons - Arthur Ransome
87. Germinal - Emile Zola
88. Vanity Fair - William Makepeace Thackeray
89. Possession - A.S. Byatt
90. A Christmas Carol - Charles Dickens
91. Cloud Atlas - David Mitchell
92. The Remains of the Day - Kazuo Ishiguro
93. Madame Bovary - Gustave Flaubert
94. A Fine Balance - Rohinton Mistry
95. The Five People You Meet In Heaven - Mitch Albom
96. The Faraway Tree Collection - Enid Blyton
97. The Wasp Factory - Iain Banks
98. Watership Down – Richard Adams
99. A Town Like Alice - Nevil Shute
100. The Three Musketeers - Alexandre Dumas

A Must Read

2008-09-26T10:12:00.004-05:00

I recently finished reading this book, The Shack, and know that I am DEFENITLY going to be reading it again (and probably again & again & again...). There were so many things that were revealed and truths and lessons explained that I often had to ask forgiveness for my own lack of faith. It defenitly changed the way I see God and things that we assume we understand. Have you ever asked, "Where is God in a world so filled with unspeakable pain?" or "How could God let this happen?" ? The answers in this book will transform the way you see God. I don't think I've ever understood the trinity (Father, Son, and Holy Ghost) better than I do now. And rather than God being a far off being that I want to be more intimate with, I saw Jesus for the first time as a down to earth friend that is always there with us where we feel him or not. I don't want to say too much that will give away the plot but with every page, the complicated do's and don'ts that distort a relationship into a religion were washed away and a I was able to see God in a new light. If you haven't yet, I encourage you to pick up a copy of this book and read about what Mack learned when he went to the shack after receiving a suspicious note, apparently from God. I hope you enjoy it and have your own "Shack experience"!

Broken

2008-09-22T22:51:00.005-05:00

These songs are the cry of my heart:

She's smiling on the outside
But she's hurting on the inside
It's getting hard just living anymore
And the shadows she has clung to
Painful things that she has been through
Have left her feeling worthless, Lord...but

You change worthless into precious
Guilty to forgiven
Hungry into satisfied
Empty into full
All the lies are shattered
And we believe we matter
When You change broken into beautiful

We live with accusations
Sometimes heavy expectations
That tell us we can never measure up
And yet You repeat with mercy
That in Your eyes we are worthy
At last we see how much we're loved cause

Chorus

Though we can't see how we can stand before you Lord
And feel valued, priceless and adored

Chorus

~ Gwen Smith

I'm just a well dressed wreck
I'm just a made up mess
Working hard trying to keep everybody impressed
All the while I'm falling apart on the inside

I look around to see
Is anyone like me?
First glance tells me I'm all alone in the sea
Then I look again a little deeper

And we're all in the same boat
We all just need to know

We're all broken
We're all broken
And we all need a Savior
Broken
We're all broken
And we all need a Savior

'Cause we're all broken

This is a fool's parade
The way we masquerade
Trying to make everybody think it's all okay
When the truth is we're all living a story

What if we all got brave?
Enough to take away
All we're hiding behind even just for a day
And let the scars show even a little

But I know the honesty
Will show us all to be

Broken
We're all broken
And we all need a Savior
Broken
We're all broken
And we all need a Savior

We don't have to pretend about it
We don't have to keep acting like we're all okay
If we lift our eyes to the cross
We'll see the reality

That we're all... broken
And we all have a Savior
Broken
We're all broken
And we all need a Savior
Broken
We're all broken
And we all need a Savior
We all have a Savior
We all need Jesus

~Steven Curtis Chapman
And a song that we sang in church this week says it so well - "I wanna hold the hand that holds the world!"

My Bratz is 5 years old!

2008-09-22T09:22:00.006-05:00

The invitation

Autumn climbing the rock wall
Pearl (a friend from school) & Autumn
Liam (above)is climbing & Wynn (below) too...my little monkeys

The crew on top of the bouncer slide
on the slides that are at the top of the 3 level playstructure
The adults looking on while the kids play
partners in crime
group picture
present time
The cake, I took a coloring page to Sobey's and they put an edible image ontop of the cake
birthday girl
girls with their feather boas
and the guys with their ties
Hannah Montana
more presents
new bike and notice...no training wheels
modelling one of her many new clothes

Toad's Secret Spot

Happy Fall!

Monster Mash

Kids

Summer 2009

Meet Cookie Oreo Ryden

Meeska Mooska Happy Birthday!

Our Trip To Saskatchewan

A Note From Cookie

PHEW!!

Happy Canada Day!

Last Day Of School

Not Yet :(

First Day of Summer

Happy Father's Day

Puppy Tales

My Graduates

Driveway Old & New

Circus 2009

W Is For Westgrove

Au Paris!

Busy, Busy, Busy

9 Years!

World Hypertension Day: May 17, 2009

Florence Nightengale's Birthday: May 12

Nurses week May 11 - 17

Happy Mother's Day!

What's With This Weather?!?

Tales From The Laundry Room

Yah-weh!

Happy Cinco De Mayo!!

Did you know?...I didn't!!

Writer's Block

The Simple Woman's Daybook (April 20th edition)

The Jelly Bean Prayer

Easter Egg Hunt

Happy Easter

Trip to the Museum

From One Extreme ToThe Other

Pictures From Wynn's Party

Rachael Needs...according to Google

More Parties

Come Back Spring!

Purple Day

Happy First Day Of Spring!

It's Party Time

Be Deaf!

Happy Saint Patrick's Day!

Kids, I'll Never Understand Them!

The Simple woman's Daybook ~ March 2, 2009

Friday Fill-ins #113

Simple Devotion ~ February 25, 2009

The Simple Woman's Daybook ~ February 23rd Edition

Changes

Happy "2 Days After" Valentine's Day

Do You Truly Love ?

Liam's ABC's

What Does Your Candy Heart Say?

Friday Fill-Ins # 108

Happy Winter!

I DON'T Think So!!

Gong Xi Fa Cai 4707!

What Year Was I Born Under?

What Year Should I Have Been Born Under?

Friday Fill-Ins #108

New Leadership

Weather Update

Friday Fill-Ins #106

Yeah Right!! (*with a note of sarcasm*)

2008 Ryden Family Newsletter

Inventory Time

LATE ENTRY

A Fun Day

Happy New Year!

Friday Fill-Ins #95

Text: RYB

Friday Fill-ins #94

A Halloween-Loving Christian?

One Year + a Day

Happy Thanksgiving

Yeah Right!! (with a note of sarcasm)